How does a white woman go about meeting a black man?

WHITE WOMEN AND BLACK MEN: STEREOTYPES AND MYTHS: How does a white woman go about meeting a black man?
By Cat (152.163.207.202) on Saturday, September 22, 2001 - 03:03 am:

That's a good idea about having separate personal sections for sex partners and romantic partners.

Well, the Bay Area is great for IR relationships meaning that it's not an issue for most people. I was raised here and I never looked at race as anything but a different presentation of human beauty. It's not as if we're different species or something.

But there's still the issue of how to meet quality people. I was in a relationship with a BM for 2 years which ended a year ago. I dated a black guy at work for a time recently, but he wants a family and I've already had my children, so it's back to the drawing board.

This is a good site. I'm glad I found it :)

By Modulis (216.249.79.135) on Wednesday, September 19, 2001 - 04:15 am:

You live in the Bay Area and you can't find a BM???? The Bay Area is like the IR dating haven. You should be able to find lotsa black guys up there that like WFs. Just present yourself in a respectable manner so they don't think you're just out for a chocolate fantasy.

By Sabbadoo32 (12.2.19.162) on Monday, September 17, 2001 - 12:34 pm:

Cat,

Unfortunately the "decent" personals are almost drowned out by ones for swingers and wife-swappers. It would be nice if the Webmaster could create a seperate personals section for those of us who may not want to get our "freak" on.

By Cat (152.163.206.177) on Monday, September 17, 2001 - 01:02 am:

Thanks, guys. After I wrote that post, I realized that there are personals on this site. But, judging from the amount of naked pics, I don't think that route is for me. I live in the Bay Area of California, so it's a pretty diverse place. I probably just need to get out more in general.

How do you two meet women?

By Aarm (64.124.150.130) on Tuesday, September 11, 2001 - 01:48 pm:

Cat, I am a BM and i would only suggest the personals as a last resort. I guess the answer to your question depends on things like how old you are, what city you live in, etc.

If you like in a city wherein there is a decent amount of diversity then it sould be relatively easy to meet BM. If you live somewhere like Maine or NewHampshire then you may have quite a challenge ahead of you. Anyway, please give some feed back as to your environment and perhaps we can help. Dont be too specific, we dont want any creeps hunting you down.

AARM

By Bluzlover (130.74.112.23) on Monday, September 10, 2001 - 05:59 pm:

Try yahoo personals. Just be careful, there are a lot of sexual predators out there.

By Cat (64.12.104.42) on Saturday, September 8, 2001 - 09:26 pm:

Hi, I just found this site. There was one message I read from a man about being attracted to white women while all his friends are not. I can relate to that. I'm extremely attracted to black men and don't even look twice at men with non-African genetics. Any advice on where/how I would go about meeting someone?


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