In regards to this "head" issue, I think both BW and WW tend to be equally accomodating. The difference is that BW may not admit to wanting to do it or to having done it as much as WW might. Also, I think it has alot to do with the fact that these BM who claim that WW are more willing to give head are actually enacting self-fulfilling prophcey. What I mean is that from reading many of the posts on the board many of the BM have a complex about WW wherin they admit to be willing to treat WW better than BW before even knowing the woman. It seems that if this is the case then its is obvious that WW would be more accomdating in that regard to those BM since they are treated well in contrast to BW who date these BM who may not be treated as well.

Related to this is the "handling your business" factor. This means that if a man is taking care of business (sexually speaking) with his woman (regardless of race) then he will find her more willing to "give back for the cause", so-to-speak. So if these BM make greater efforts to please their WW than they do their BW then they will obviously find WW more appreciative and willing to reciprocate.

In essence, I have found that women in general tend to me more accomodating in every regard when they have a sense of security and dependability in their respective mates. I think this is similar to what Anon2000 was trying to say. We can also factor in the fact that some WW may also buy into this perception (that BW dont give head as often), so they may actualize this with their BM in an attempt to keep him from "straying" back to BW, or to in an effort to "lock him down" or "pussy-whip" him - to use the vernacular.

Anyway, thats all I have to say about that.

AARM

By Anon2000 (208.187.245.89) on Monday, July 2, 2001 - 09:57 pm:

fyi, a lot of women (of all races) reserve "head" for monogamous, committed relationships....just because a man doesn't get some when first dating, doesn't mean that he always won't! it is definitely under the category of risky sex.

By Sabbadoo32 (12.2.19.162) on Monday, July 2, 2001 - 07:20 pm:

I must disagree with the assertion that most BW do not give head. At least the ones I've been involved with did. And so did the WW, and the Asian ones. Guys love head. We've never met a blowjob we didn't like. At least I haven't.

By Stature4 (205.188.197.173) on Sunday, July 1, 2001 - 11:52 pm:

ok i may be way out of line but. . . my friends all tell me that one reason BM go for WW is because most BW do not give "head." which i have even experienced. the guys i have dealt with say that the BW they have been with refuse oral sex. so a lot of BM want it and can't get it so if they know a WW is willing, they go for it. i'm not saying this is the reason, i'm just saying its an issue. Black Men, do you have an answer for me??

By Roberto (205.188.193.57) on Friday, February 2, 2001 - 05:29 pm:

White women, like all races of women have a special way to read men. Yes, Maximus they have sophistication, but they also have a special way to make you see yourself as you really are and they see you for what you are. Why do you think Presidents keep their First Lady's close by in critical meetings with others. Who is best to read the opposition than a woman. That is why I've said before and will say again, a woman is the best friend a man can ever have at his side. If he treats her right, because she can be one hell of enemy. ~ Roberto