Do Black men think White women are pushovers?

WHITE WOMEN AND BLACK MEN: CONVERSATIONS BETWEEN BLACK MEN AND WHITE WOMEN: Do Black men think White women are pushovers?
By Browneyes (205.188.200.47) on Saturday, April 7, 2001 - 07:57 pm:

I wonder what happened to the poster who kept posting that same poem all over this forum... did the webmaster throw her out?

By Chazen (209.78.78.165) on Saturday, April 7, 2001 - 06:57 pm:

Hello , I'd like to make a commit on this, for I don't think as a whole, black me treat white women that different or think that they are easy. everyone looks for love , and we get it where we can. Not just sexually but a conversation of thoughts. White women who are curious about black men, do just that bring about a curious conversation to the equation, that some other women will not. as a Black man, I enjoy a good conversation, and when someone is interested in me, as well as I them.

By Roberto (64.12.104.188) on Wednesday, April 4, 2001 - 10:55 pm:

KeeKee:

I wish you and other black women (like you) would go "get a life" and stop trying to make black men guilty for the choices they make. If you were not so "insecured" you would not be making "poetic vindictiveness" your traditional trademarks on this site dedicated to white women and black men. Get a life. ~ Roberto

By Melirosa (208.48.12.163) on Friday, March 30, 2001 - 11:44 am:

wyatt-
you are so right. i am so tired of black women who think that black men are cutting out and running to white women because we are push overs. get a grip!!!!!!!! there are weak minded people in every race and for black women to suggest that all white women are pushovers and to assume that black men are interested in us for that reason only is totally ludicrous. i happen to be of latin descent (puerto-rican) and people have false perceptions of us also. i wish people would stop judging one another because of their race. it is all based on ignorance. each and every person should be looked at as an individual and no one should be generalized because what race they are. sure, we are all different and certain races have different traits that they carry out throughout the generations, but that's what makes us all interesting. no race is more superior to another. people are people and we need to start treating one another with respect regardless of our race. (in a perfect world.)

By Wyatt (207.106.60.18) on Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 12:10 pm:

I have never thought, "Wow white women are pushovers, have to get me one"! I am an educated black man, successful and open-minded. What would I want with a woman who is a pushover? I am wondering how black women assume that white women are pushovers, yet can't look at themselves and other black women around them. Those black women who get pregnant and left by some no account bum. Those who are weak minded to pick up addictive, dangerous drugs and alcohol, those who are too weak to eat a healthy diet and live a healthy lifestyle, those who play the victim and allow the government to pay their bills, those who stay with abusive, unfaithful men, those who prostitute themselves and are ruled by material possessions, who follow mysoginistic, sexist, racist and violent athletes, music stars, just for the superficialness.
Black men, don't be fooled, the myth is that there is this strong black woman out there. We need only look around and see white and black women working to feed their families, taking care and nurturing their children and loving their husbands. Who are these women kidding, weakness is in the heart and mind of all races of people. Black women don't have a monopoly on strength of character. Ask Whitney Houston or read Terry MacMillian. They want you to believe this myth, but we all can read between the lines that black women are hurting and instead of being honest, they put up a front of being strong. If they claim to be so independent, why are they complaining about black men with white women? They would be independent enough to be happy with worrying about what other people are doing.

By Swampfox8 (63.11.114.202) on Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 10:45 pm:

Hey Kansascity, i don't think that London meant that white women are pushovers. I'm pretty sure he was just poking fun at the notion that black women think we date white women for that reason. I'm a 32 year old black dude who does not think or never thought of white women as pushovers, i like them for my own reasons just like i like women from all races.

By Kansascity (209.242.125.20) on Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 04:21 am:

Well, Well , Well.....being that I have heard it said from the "old school' that white women put up with more than black women.....from black men...there is some truth to that. Black women know...for the most part....every and any angle a black man can play. Some black men seek out white women because they know she doesn't know them in that way ......yet!!:-)


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