you posted a good topic, Roberto, i thought i would follow it up with the opposite viewpoint.

my last white love what p. he was big and tall, masculine, italian, bright, nonconformist and a great lover - one of the best. i really loved that man. we were together for 2 years at which point i had to transfer to a different college 40 miles away. i asked him to come with and he refused....at that point i realized he was incapable of opening himself fully to love and commitment with me.

well, i did move and on the very same day i moved into student housing, i met the d's, a black couple with a small child. mrs. d. and i became quick friends and i was invited to house parties. she was a very cool bw and had NO problems with ww and ir. it was during this time that i discovered bm *smile*...and reggae.

the rest is history...