Just as the naughtier pictures are in their own section, so should the naughtier personals. I don't want to censor them. But I recently exchanged emails with a woman I met in the personals who I feel seemed a little uncomfortable with her ad sandwiched between those of women who wanted it "Wendy's style (Biggie-sized, hot, and right now!)."

She's since taken her ads out. There are probably other women like her who check a couple ads, and may move on.

By Cma (216.249.73.110) on Monday, June 4, 2001 - 03:48 pm:

I'm not sure if I'd want the personals censored by content. But I just wish the people that post there were more like the people in this dicussion area. When I look at those personals, it seems like a totally different website altogether. I really enjoy this site a lot. The people here are so intelligent and have insites on so many things. I don't feel like there are many people I can talk about these things with other than right here. I only have one friend that I think would understand IR issues on the level I'd like to talk about it.

By Sabbadoo32 (12.2.19.162) on Monday, June 4, 2001 - 11:39 am:

Although I still believe in the "non-showing your dick" policy, I do understand that these ads, no matter how trashy, do help keep this site going. But I wish they could find a way to segregate the swingers ads from those of people who'd prefer to talk first THEN have sex.

By Swampfox8 (63.11.114.129) on Friday, June 1, 2001 - 09:07 pm:

I agree with all of you about the adult site. It seems that the only way that most of America will accept white women and black men together is for sex only which is sad. I will not be some dumb-assed couple's fantasy!!!

By Roberto (152.163.201.196) on Wednesday, May 9, 2001 - 10:59 pm:

Sabbadoo32:

I call it the typical black trash self-aggrandizement without substance. Roberto

By Sabbadoo32 (12.2.19.162) on Friday, May 4, 2001 - 12:52 pm:

No kidding, I was checking my ad and clicked on "MassiveStaff." It was a picture, albeit a really bad one of his dick. If you are going to do that, at least you could frame it properly.

The thing I like about this site is that is much more gentile than your average IR hardcore site. I don't know if there is a "non-showing-your-dick" policy, but if there is it should be enforced.

Good Christ!

By Anon2000 (207.218.73.137) on Wednesday, May 2, 2001 - 10:40 pm:

that's what some of us tried to tell the webmaster, but to no avail. i had a clean ad there awhile ago, but took it down after seeing so many trashy pictures. who wants to be associated with that?? there are so many ir xxx-rated sites out there, why not a site without the smut? oh i know...$$$

*shrug*

By Modulis (216.249.79.86) on Wednesday, May 2, 2001 - 08:58 pm:

I was just browsing through the personal ads on this website, I was quite disappointed to see how many were based on nothing but the hope of quick sex. This certainly doens't do much to repel the stereotype that BM/WW only hook up for sex.