Younger Black Men with Older White Women

ahhhhh you've noticed

 

It's kinda hard not to. Besides, who am I to talk? I'd do same thing as well if someone pushes me enough, otherwise I try to defuse the situation.

 

lol plenty, seen alot of it these past few months

 

I understand completely. I try to defuse it if I can, but if I am pushed it is on unless I can see the "bait" ahead of time...then I laugh in that instance and simply say OK.

 

I have usually dated older women ...now Im in the 40+ Im dating up to 5 to 10 years older and looking at up to 5 or 20 years younger. I would love to get married again and have kids so younger would probably be the route to go. It is not a deal breaker if she cant have kids but I want more

 

Tried to rep you but have to spread it around

 

thanks.

 

I am just not really into the older women thing, that is just me personally.

 

goodlove....hmmm I am so new, I don't think I have the power to rep you sorry....

I appreciate your post, I do think you are an enlightened man who realizes that an older woman does not mean a lesser quality woman.....that depends solely on the individual woman.

I always have had relationships with older men, but the younger men, they keep showing interest.....I used to think they wouldn't know what to do with me, hmm now I am totally rethinking that.....

 

Hi Mines and welcome! I think the important thing is finding someone you gel with regardless of their age. That said, I have dated guys who's age ranged from 24 to 38 (all younger than me) since my divorce and trust me, they know what to do!

 

that's a very pessimistic POV, the OP seemed sincere.

 

because stereotyping is always right?

 

True...and a very realistic one too.

 

You be the judge of that. Absorb the entire post and stop cloying it. After all, I did say this in that same post...

 

like you guys stated the most important thing is having that bond....I still want kids though...you are gonna have to pop 2 or 3 for the bro. I want at least one stem on the apple

 

2 or 3? Really.....? Interesting. Idk, sounds fun. Children are great...of course you want babies... I can still pop at least 2, haha. But...it is possible to have a really strong connection, sans procreation......hmmm for recreation purposes.

Still, just like you can deliver 'good loving' . . . mines can still deliver.
hehe

Goodlove - your replies/posts are so fun . . .

 

thanks

 

Looks like Mines will have to take it from here! Seriously though, that is reasonable and understandable and I think most older women who date younger men understand that. The first guy I dated after my divorce was like that, so after over 2 yrs he went his own way. I was certainly sad about it but I also understood and am happy for him today. I will also say that I think some guys kinda like not having to worry about being a daddy too!

 

I am late as usual. However, I second you.

 

yeah for the most part men want to have a woman who they can depend on , mature , smart and wise. I love kids so I hope I can have a woman that can pop a few for me.....It is not a deal breaker tho.


PS: I would make it rain on her if she drop it like its hot. aint no shame in my game