Is Talking A Woman Into Sex Wrong?

in other words give me reasons to give it up without making me look like a hoe.

 

I hate those kinds of games, though. If you want dick, why lie about it by playing "hard to get?" If both of us want it, then we should just be able to go for it with no pretenses.

 

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:smt043 hahahaha. If more women felt secure in their sexual desires this crazy behavior wouldn't be necessary. We have needs, cravings, desires...nothing to be ashamed of. Like you said though, some women want to be talked into sex because then they can relinquish responsibility (in their crazy minds) for their actions. Crazy I tell ya lol.

Couldn't agree with you more my friend. It's just not that serious. You know us womenz like to make things more difficult than they need to be though

 

as long a guy dont say something stupid....he will get the sex.

as u said no woman should feel uncomfortable in getting sex. the problem is society labels women as hoes

 

Just once, I'd like for a woman to just approach me and be like take the initiative after dinner or coffee or something and just say "Hey, you wanna have sex?" You know, for research purposes...

 

That's kind of why I miss being in a relationship sometimes. Once we've gotten to the point where we really know each other's wants and needs we can just skip the small talk and just fuck. Another lonely Saturday night for me lol.

 

You're so romantic. Be still my heart.

 

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at the end of the day...a dude with a half a brain cell will know to back off. u can feel the vibe.

is it wrong to try another day? no.

at some pt u will have to figure thats she not into u and move on .

its not that hard to figure out.

what is lost is the following;

1. she maybe into u but she may want to see if u are the one....i get that point....if shes not the type to slang it out there like that then dude need to respect that. just check in once in awhile to see if shes ready...lol.

with that in mind....women if u arent gonna give it up anytime soon then dont play with his junk and then say no.

i had a couple of women do that....the bext hot sec i was gone and never called back. why? women like that are suspect. they are up to no good..


2. alot of guys act as though if i take u out then u owe me attitude. i always tell women if a dude goes over the top.....get ready for the swift boat..

 

Like I said before, I'm never gonna be talked into something I didn't kinda want to do. But sometimes my hesitation is with risking short-shooting any real chemistry altogether. If the chemistry is immediate and strong - well, that's one thing. But that's a very rare and elusive thing. Absent that we're just cheating ourselves of something better. Girls like a mindfuck too, and that can be worth the effort. trust me.

 

that said, all of my serious relationships started fast and furious. Why they didn't end with me scurrying home with sunglasses on and calls-straight-to-voicemail ... I can't say.

I definitely never felt any regrets I suppose. Moral of the story is maybe if she's not totally into it; if you have to "convince" her, then don't expect to see her again.

 

when guys say "talk u into sex"...they just mean dating...(smooth talking....macking..seducing...romancing or whatever)

lets be honest....as long as a guy dont say sonetging stupid and show some social grace and confidence.....sex is gonna happen. lol

 

Oh, if the guy handles his buissiness and makes sure she gets off, she'll definitely make it a point to see him again. She'll be blowing dude's celly up trying to get more of that good, good.

Never under estimate the power of a good orgasm. That shit is like a real life Jedi Mind Trick.

 

no doubt

 

That's right. No games. If I want that, I'd go to a casino.

 

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