Cold Approaching women

The OP hit a raw nerve with this thread because EVERY brotha on this site AND in real life struggles cold approaching women, particularly WW.:lol:

 

Lol now that's the truth

Lets get back to the original topic fellas, shall we?

 

exactly. they are the same ones that want to throw salt on the thread too.

also, they say we act like we pulling all day. no one said that shit. hell we say we strike out more than we succeed are getting a number.

 

They must of missed the post about me getting rejected at the gym :smt043

 

exactly, and we talked about what to do if you get shot down.

so its very obvious people see with prejudice eyes.

anyway, like i was saying. i have to be aware not to ask questions that require yes/no answers. very important

 

Lets get back to the game. So where do you prefer to meet women at, nightclubs or lounges/bars?

 

if im wanting to brush up then nite club and lounge.

i like going to a store, library or something like that.

 

I feel you. I know you might agree with me on this but I believe it is best to meet women out in public during the day. You get to see the real person and not some facade. They expect us to approach them at nightclubs, bars, and lounges and some women will have their guards up (especially at nightclubs). But when going out I prefer lounges/bars over nightclubs. Nightclubs are too loud, crowded, and women are more prone to keep their guards up. You'll have to squeeze by 5 people just to get to a girl you like before some other dude does. Then she may have an attitude because too many rude dudes were approaching her. Then when you get a chance to talk to her you have to talk loud because of the damn bass in the music! LOL It is a lot of work but I still go to clubs. I have to drink a lot of alcohol to have a good time at a club because I get irritated quickly lol. Niggas be stepping on my damn shoes 'n shit! SMH I am getting annoyed just typing about this now. :smt043

 

exactly. thats why i said niteclubs and lounges are good to brush up. so when you have gone thru the fire....public settings are easier.

 

Not to mention you will have better conversations out in public too.

 

yeah....you just cant be as direct as the club but you will be sharp

 

Exactly. The clubs are perfect for finding a girl to fuck that night. I'm not the one night stand type.

 

Not ... Some of us women are the same in the club as on the street; however, you don't know that so I get it.

 

hate to tell you this but most men arent looking for a longterm relationship in a nite club.....

also women do act different in the club versus a supermarket. you know for a fact a guy will hit on u at a club versus a store.

 

I'm not looking for long-term at a club either.

 

well correct me if im wrong but the tone of your post indicates that you are upset at him for wanting an one nite stand and me for wanting to sharpen my flirting skills.

 

What clubs do you go to?

 

Nope - sorry if it came off that way.

Many different clubs

 

She goes to wherever they're young Black men, she likes them young and full of energy lol

 

I was trying to be cute (in reference to your "not looking for long-term in a club" comment).