Cuckholding - from a white man's perspective!

Discussion in 'Stereotypes and Myths' started by bclbm2003, Dec 29, 2007.

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  1. bclbm2003

    bclbm2003 New Member

    Allow me to present my perspective to the "interracial lifestyle" involving white couples and black men. I will do this by presenting an article I wrote for my Yahoo interracial groups.

    All I ask is that if you disagree, please post your comments in a civil and reasonable tone. OK - please read below:

    Black Men and White Wives

    In this essay I will go into an explanation of social phenomenon that is growing in practice and acceptance every day. That which I speak of is sexual activity between married white women and black men. This social trend is literally sweeping the country and yet is the best kept secret in America for reasons that are entirely understandable.

    In my previous essay I talked about the origins of interracial sexuality in America going back to the days of the old South and slavery. The current phenomenon owes it’s popularity to and appeal to those old days of slavery, and to the fear and awe built up around perceptions of black male sexuality that came from the institution of slavery in the old South.

    Some years ago, the famous betting expert “Jimmy The Greek” Snyder caused a furor with his remarks about how black athletes were superior due to breeding practices during slavery in the Old South. Although it was rather indelicately put, Snyder was essentially correct in that the strongest fittest black males were paired up with the strongest healthiest black females because their offspring would be better more valuable workers in the cotton fields. While this practice (like all other aspects of slavery) was reprehensible, it did result in black males being born that were tremendous physical specimens with superior size, stamina, and sexuality as well. This fact was not lost on the Southern white women (some of whom were undoubtedly wives) of the day as they were drawn to the impressive physiques and percieved powerful sexuality of these black male slaves.

    Descendants of these black men are still around today and white women of today are still just as powerfully drawn to them as the white women in the Old South were generations ago.

    What has of course changed is the fact that it is not longer a societal offense for a white woman to be sexually involved with a black man, however the deeply rooted interracial “taboo” remains, and it is this “taboo” that give the interracial experience it’s excitement and power, and has resulted in the seduction of so many white women (and wives) by the black man’s sexuality. This trend continues with no signs of letting up, and it is clear that at some point a large percentage of white women in our society will have had some level of sexual experience with a black man. Some feel that perhaps as many as 1 in 5 white married women have had sexual relations with a black man after they were married! This is especially true in the areas that comprised the old “Slave South” and seems especially true in the former capitol of the Confederacy, the great state of Virginia, which has emerged as a wonderful example of interracial relations in America today!

    Part of the reason the BM/WF trend has continued and has seemingly gained momentum is not only that the laws against interracial intimacy have been removed, but also because interracial sexuality among white women (most notably white wives) has been to a large degree promoted by their husbands! The breathtaking images available on the Internet of white women and black men in sexual embrace have fired the imaginations of many a white man (and husband) and moved them to consider offering their women the chance to experience the potent sexuality of the black man for themselves. Many “interracial” websites have sprung up on the Internet catering to the interracial lifestyle. While some lump this in with Internet pornography, in truth this is something far different! There is something very different driving this trend, something separate and apart from common sexuality. The delicious allure of interracial sexuality, fueled by generations of taboo and secrecy is the ultimate aphrodisiac, and seems capable of seducing not only white women, but white families as well!

    Many white couples report that the wife’s interracial couplings are a never-ending source of excitement and joy both for her AND for her husband as he watches his wife receive the ultimate in sexual pleasure. There are different arrangements in this lifestyle. In some, the wife goes discreetly to her black boyfriends home or apartment to seek satisfaction there with the tacit acceptance of her husband. In other arrangements, the husband accompanies the wife and watches as she receives pleasure from her black lover. There are variations on both, depending on the needs and desires of the couple in question. Many wives (and most husbands) report much greater satisfaction from the arrangement where the husband is there to watch. The white husband, who truly loves his wife, will delight in observing the pleasure and fulfillment that the black man can give her. This experience is one which many white couples use to bond even closer in their relationship.

    Implicit in this arrangement is a strong marriage and loving relationship between the husband and wife, that counteracts the natural jealousy the husband would otherwise feel in knowing that another man, a black man, was having sex with his wife. That natural jealousy is overpowered by the husband’s love, and by the sheer excitement and eroticism of the wife’s activities with her black lover in bed. Often upon watching his wife, the husband’s excitement is just as great as her’s, and he gets to witness her at her most sexual, a sight that he does not ordinarily see when making love to her himself!

    The way a wife goes about enjoying her black lover is important as well. Many wives will do for a black man, sexual acts that they rarely do with their husbands. Things like swallowing semen, performing analingus, and allowing anal penetration are all acts, which many white women eagerly do with their black lovers, but may not do with their husbands. Watching the wife perform these somewhat taboo acts with a black man is all the more exciting and stimulating to the husband as well as the wife! Giving herself so eagerly and so without shame to her black lover is what intensifies the excitement for the couple, and makes the black experience something they will permanently incorporate into their lives.

    Many white wives are at first reluctant to enter into the interracial relationship, not so much because they lack the interest, but rather because they feel they are being unfaithful to their marriage vows. However, as many white couples have come to understand it, the vows are against betrayal and going behind the spouses back, NOT doing things with the husband’s consent and support. This is a key difference! In fact the vows to “love, honor, and obey” are best observed when the white wife loves her husband, trusts him enough to try this new lifestlye, and honors him by sharing the excitement and intimacy of the interracial act with him. She may be somewhat nervous and afraid, but goes forward anyway because she knows this is what her husband wants, and she trusts in him that all will be ok. Her love and trust is then rewarded with an experience that is more exciting and pleasurable than any she has experienced in her life! That then is her reward for loving and trusting her husband, and approaching the black experience with him as a loving couple supporting each other and committed to each other’s pleasure and fulfillment.

    Because of the power and seductiveness of the black experience, it is a natural progression in many cases for this lifestyle to envelope the entire family of the white woman, usually in the case of her daughters as well, however that discussion will be reserved for a future essay to be forthcoming in the near future.

    Let’s just say that for the time being, interracial sexuality for white women both single and married is becoming an increasingly common occurrence and will continue to do so for the foreseeable future!
  2. darkice

    darkice New Member

    I have VERY mixed feelings about this whole cuckholding fetish that seems to be an epidemic in some locales in our country. I know some of my friends (who are black males) enjoy the idea that white women (married or otherwise) lust after after them. But I think the concept that the Black Man is only good for sex and nothing else is a little absurd. I'm not saying that interracial cuckholding is a good or bad thing, but I personally wouldn't involve myself in it.
  3. bclbm2003

    bclbm2003 New Member

    Vaughn, I hear where you are coming from. There are no easy answers here! The IR thing is surely about a fantasy, but that does not necessarily mean that black men do not have worth outside the bedroom, or for that matter that white women are only good for sex.

    Some black men and white women marry each other. However others for various reasons prefer to keep their sex "recreational" and not form emotional attachments while doing so.

    Certainly a white wife who does genuinely love her husband would not want to fall in love with a black man she was having sex with, and neither likely would the black man either.

    I think that if all involved are ok with it, and they are up front and honest about what they are looking for, then it can work out for them. I have corresponded with white couples who are also social friends with the black men they involve themselves with.

    One thing is for certain, and that is that this "phenomenon" is becoming more and more popular, although still remaining secret.
  4. malikom

    malikom Banned

    i agree
  5. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    Man, these white boys are really pushing this cuckold thing down our throats. I'll fuck your wife while you're at work and have her give me your hard-earned money, would that be exciting to you? :roll:
  6. Ronja

    Ronja New Member

    I'm having mixed feelings about the whole essay. Sorry. I can see that it's ment well, but it's too simple. And the start criteria is not completely correct.

    The initial criteria for the whole essay is that black people are superior to white because of breeding practices during the slavery. Sounds logical, but sadly that's not how the slavery worked. But it probably was how it was intended to work.

    Many slaveowners thought that by pairing couples, or by just buying a male and a female, they would be self sufficient with slaves. That's not how humans work though. People in captivity have a very low reproduction rate- We're not cattle. That's one of the reasons why the transatlantic slavetrade had to go on for so long. If the supply of slaves could have been met by breeding the slaves locally (in US) they would have done so, cause that would be much more economically benefitial.

    However, only the strongest ones survived the freight fom Africa, so that's perhaps a more logical explanation to why black people in US seem to be physically stronger than whites.

    (As well as modern socioeconomic factors. I bet a lot of those black athletes train like hell, because they know that's the only way they'll be able to aford university studies. More white people have parents who can help them through college.)
  7. fnnysmrtprtty

    fnnysmrtprtty New Member

    Agreed. The OP seems to have highly romanticized idea of cuckholding, as seen in his 'charity work' story. "No suh, I never thought it was true a white man would share his white woman with a black man. Yes suh, I'll take your charity and fuck your white woman, thank you so much, suh!" :roll:

    I guess black men should be thanking all the kind white men who 'share' their ww... :roll: :roll: :roll:
  8. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    it's becoming beyond ridiculous that these people keep coming here thinking that this is what our relationships are about...i'm sorry but i am dealing with real life not fantasy play's about who is going to fix dinner and do the laundry...what are we buying the kids for christmas and can we afford to go on vacation this year...

    this cuck crap is NOT "interracial lifestyle" get your f@#$%^& facts straight...take your fetish bullshit somewhere else

    btw, i don't have to be civil or reasonable if i don't want is unreasonable for you to expect that anyone here wants to read this crap...
  9. fnnysmrtprtty

    fnnysmrtprtty New Member

    Anyone who has told you that you are not civil or reasonable is simply bitter that you called out their posts for what they are - complete, unwelcome crap!!!
  10. PearlGirl

    PearlGirl New Member

    I agree with you 100% lipstick! There are PLENTY of internet forums dedicated to the fetish. This is not one of them.
  11. natedogg2772

    natedogg2772 New Member

    I hear that lipstick...
  12. KnCA

    KnCA New Member

    I think the OP has proved exactly what some of us were talking about regarding wm and bw on this site.

    Do we really need to have this shit on here? I don't see how this adds any value to a site that's about supporting bm and ww. It's not like we don't know it's out there. I hardly think THIS SITE is the place to for it!

    Last I heard - there are plenty of areas on the web for the fetish folks.

    GO AWAY!
  13. natedogg2772

    natedogg2772 New Member

    No, value is added. It only detracts from the purpose of promoting wholesome ww/bm relationships. Some people just can't leave well enough alone. I'm not going to waste any more time explaining my preference to wm/bw who wanna wanna create a distraction.
  14. SmoothDaddy101

    SmoothDaddy101 Well-Known Member

    Lipstick hit the nail on the spot. For me, when I see a WW who I find attractive, I think of everything. You know, when I get on my knee, will she say yes, searching for an apartment/house--paying the rent. The ideas of both our mothers in the kitchen for Thanksgiving/Christmas, The joy of our first child(not to mention the doctor bills)...Finding a good school for the kids. Being there for my wife when ill and vice-versa....

    'Tis is a regular healthy lifestyle....except I'm a BM and my future wife is a WW.
  15. sarah23

    sarah23 Well-Known Member

    i couldnt help noticing the reference to "the entire family" and "daughters". Is the next instalement going to be about the white couple watching a BM having sex with their daughters! ! ! It may be becoming more and more popular, but that doesnt mean that we should agree with the practice.
    The moving force behind all of this is the white male. I would just encourage a ww to seek out her own bm for sex. But then she would be in control !
  16. MistressB

    MistressB New Member

    To the original poster,

    That entire essay proves why you are not equipped to discuss sensitive topics of race, or sexuality. There is no good reason why sexual relations between a black man and a white woman - EVEN if the woman is married - fall outside the ordinary spectrum of "sexual relationships", "sexuality" or "sex life" in any way. The only reason you could write such a thing is if you consider it a legitimate attitude that black men are not 'people' in some way, or capable of having ordinary sexual relations. If you do think that then you shouldn't be on this website - and if you don't, then you need to stop posting such ignorant rubbish.

    These cuckold posts are really tiring now. Cuckholding - if it is a legitimate fetish at all - is not something which is a useful topic of discussion on a website dedicated to discussions between WW/BM in loving relationships/sexual relationships or anything in between. We are not in love with our black men because it is going to give weird kicks to a WM out there! :evil:
  17. MistressB

    MistressB New Member

    I'm also insulted that this shit has been posted - in the LOVERS forum?!?!?!?
  18. Ronja

    Ronja New Member

    I didn't even notice that!

    I sort of wish the OP replied to all the criticism. He probably thought his essay was going to get a warm welcome on this forum. I wonder what he's thinking now...
  19. fnnysmrtprtty

    fnnysmrtprtty New Member

    His 'charity' story was written well, but the tone and content were nauseating.
  20. KnCA

    KnCA New Member

    I think we just need to keep reporting this type of crap to the webbie to show him that we do NOT want this crap anywhere on this site!
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