If Your Friend Married A Pornstar, Is It Disrespectfull To Watch The Movie?

Sure, pedophilia is a fetish too. Or necrophilia, and other sick stuff. Not my bag because I'm not that crazy. Which doesn't necessarily mean I'm not into anything. Personally, I would not be OK with my guy actually getting off on watching other men with me. That would not work for me.

 

Nice soapbox u got there

Wait....let me get you another one so ur even higher

 

False equivalency.

 

Yeah not sure how we went from a fetish (err preference) which involves free adults and no victims, to something like pedophilia which often involves kids as victims of abuse

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That's how:

 

That's what I'm getting. Seems like people are too quick to lump all these things into the same category without thinking about the details within them. I guess we still have a lot to learn.

 

I agree that the man who married the lady and turned her into a housewife should expect others to partake in the movies. Just because they chose to put her past behind Her, that does not erase the fact or evidence of her past life choices. I would venture I say that because they have moved on, it's best for his friends move on as well and not bring that subject up when interacting with each other.

Are they wrong for watching? I mean it's out there...

 

Yeah I don't think it's anything wrong in watching. I wouldn't do it, but like others already said, it comes with the territory.

 

While I agree dude should not expect people to not look. If wanted a woman no one "knew" about then meeting a porn actress at The Bunny Ranch and wifing her prolly wasn't the way to go. But, out of respect for our friendship and the fact that it's something they would rather put behind them, I'm not going to watch it. There are few things I'm old fashioned about, but this is one of them. I try to be loyal to my friends even if no one would be the wiser.

I'll be visiting home this summer and I don't want to be looking at her remember that money shot on her face. I want to try and give her the respect that I would any of my friends' wives.

But, if they eva, eva, evvvva divorce, I'm peeping that shit!

 

Spoken like a true man :smt036

 

If the friend asked you not to watch it, then I wouldn't.

I'd have to agree that if it was an issue for them then they should have kept the information private. If the guy goes out telling people, then he has to know that it's going to be looked at. Even if they had kept it private info, they should realize that it could come out and be prepared to deal with that.

Me, I wouldn't want to see it. If he didn't request that friends not watch it, I wouldn't fault them for looking. Comes with the territory.

 

One of the final four girls on the bachelor confessed that she did playboy...the bachelor sent her home at the next rose ceremony...it would take a certain type of man to overlook that past...the farmer from Iowa wasn't having it

 

On second thought, I'd look, but I wouldn't mention it or pass the movie around.

 

Yah - my daughter and I were talking about that one. I don't know how much it was about Playboy specifically, and how much it was about the several statements from her family about her being a "Wild Mustang" and how she moved out to CA to be a model, etc. Doesn't much matter at this point though. To me she really came off as a shy reserved innocent on the show towards the Farmer and seemed really out of character (from what was shown) to have gone the nude photo route.

This guy in this thread met the chick at the Bunny Ranch and ended up marrying her? He's obviously that certain type of guy to overlook the past/present (in her case). More power to them. Seems to me that he really doesn't have any right to be concerned with what anyone may have to say (or see) about it all though.

It's all about choices.

 

If my friend marry an ex porn star, or a bunny ranch girl & that lifestyle is behind her, not a big deal. I would not peep her films just out of respect.

 

it's about damn time a man said the right thing around here...bouncing blue balls for you:smt026:smt026:smt026:smt026:smt026

 

I have cat DNA hence i am curious so it would be better if you didnt tell me cus i would watch but i would make sure i dont have wood as a sign of respect :smt105

 

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