Should I give up on Ukraine..what about the other slavic countries?

Discussion in 'The International Perspective' started by Bhayes, Mar 8, 2013.

  1. FRESH

    FRESH New Member

    I sees at you are saying. But having to put thought to "short hand," I think sounds superficial, shallow, undermining maybe. I rarely even think of color until its brought up. Trying to explain racial situations can be "sticky," but I just describe what I see and have lived.
     
  2. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    ..and that is exactly what I said in three posts w TDK lol.:smt048.
    Maybe I was writing in swenglish.:D
     
  3. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    You drunken Russian pirate
     
  4. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    Rrrrrrraaaarrrggghhhhhh!
     
  5. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    LOL...LOL.

    this dude talking about international macking due to lack of a decent mouthpiece. LOL.

    come on really..

    if your ass would put more effort into tightening yourself up than researching where you think you will get play maybe you can play here in the states.

    even if you settled down with an international woman.....shit sooner or later they are gonna examine your ass and put in a trick bag.
     
  6. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member


    Most of the time when dudes get made fun of its because they usually come across exactly like the OP : black males desperate to fuck some trophy white pussy (an that's the key thing right there) but don't have the game to pull an average white woman let alone super model/porn star looking type of white women they feel they are somehow entitled to be fucking for some reason. If dudes are looking to be in actual relationships with white women beyond trophy pussy status, then no one is making fun of them for going to other countries to seek a significant other.
     
  7. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    This.
     
  8. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Yeah Ra thats bullshit sorry fam. Its not only dudes like the op who get clowned. If I get sometime Ill dig through some old posts because I remember female posters making fun in the past.
     
  9. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member

    Yes. Please do dig some posts up. You were more than sure that the women were making fun of guys in general in this thread and that turned out not to be the case.
     
  10. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

  11. MixedCalifornian

    MixedCalifornian Active Member

    I've found women not in college place a higher value on a persons $. While women in college are very very superficial when it comes to looks even expecting men way beyond their league. That's just my take on dating in the adult world after high school.

    I've found Western Europeans less concerned about money, and more appreciative of people who are different then white Americans. I also would say Americans tend to be stupider. I really don't care if people are offended.
    In a college class 2 idiots started a class discussion on a fictional character called god.
     
  12. dj4monie

    dj4monie New Member

    I don't come around much because...

    I have better sh*t to do, but the OP needs some help and I am here to help.

    He is slightly over-analzying this (okay alot). Its very simple, get on the plane.

    His problem is he hasn't gotten on a plane yet, he's making assumptions. You guys don't remember Nate who went to Russia to meet a forum member and has since married her?

    I know at least three other Black men that have married Russian or Ukrainian women. A friend of mine Law is married to a Ukrainian woman and they have child #2 on the way.

    I agree there is a double standard, when women complain about men not measuring up or complaints of men not taking them seriously for some odd reason, she is offered help from both men and women. But when a man says he's struggling with women, both men and women say its his fault and that he needs to fix whatever it is.

    The unspoken truths are -

    Women in America no longer need men, so men have to meet other criteria.

    Women think having husbands and children impede their ability to earn high wages. This is why college educated women often don't get married and have their first child until age 30+.

    Some women choose not to have children at all.

    And finally, obesity is a serious problem in Anglo countries; In The US and UK especially.

    An attempt is going to be made to shoot the messenger here, so don't be a idiot and Google anything I just said, there are plenty of articles on all subjects.

    I recommend Ukraine but honestly, I would try Russia. Most men don't go because -

    • You need a Visa to go. It cost $95 and unless you live in one of the major cities where an embassy is located, its unlikely you'll go there or send your passport for them to approve your Visa.
    • None of the major Bride Tour companies are going to Russia. A noted industry veteran and critic believes its because those companies have worn out their welcome.

    But in your favor is that Russian women are EVERYWHERE. I've know a man who met his wife on the subway in Moscow. The infrastructure of marriage agencies already existed in Russia (and Ukraine) WAY before the fall of the USSR and the invasion of US owned bride tours in the late 90's. For a small fee any of these companies will allow you to go through their database (the same databases that bride tour companies use) and pick out a few women.

    They will call the women and setup meetings for you.

    You can also use a site called VK.com its the Russian version of Facebook.

    Mack met Ukrainian women via My Space which has been rebooted.

    Finally I recommend DIY (Doing It Yourself), forget Anastasia, A Foreign Affair or even my friend's company Dream Connections. IMHO they cost too much and play gatekeeper with the women on their database.

    The truth is, I know four people that have married women through AFA (A Foreign Affair) NONE OF THEM were on the web site when they met their wives. AFA runs ads in the local paper, on billboards and buses to encourage local women to come to the socials. So my friend's wives were first time attendees.

    You don't have to be a Lil Wayne wanna-be or any of that stuff, just be yourself. There are women interested in Black men in the Former Soviet Union and the chances of you running into xenophobic Neo-Nazi's is fairly slim, their main targets are Asian immigrants from former USSR states like Uzbekistan.

    You need to be able to spend time with any woman you meet in HER country, where she's liable to act like she always does. If that's bad, then you'll see it.

    If that fails, I happen to know an attractive English speaking Brazilian Christian woman that's looking for a LTR.

    My podcast is almost ready to go and its chock full of information just like this.

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    Last edited: Mar 13, 2013
  13. dj4monie

    dj4monie New Member

    In my experience Eastern European women don't care, just be productive.

    My friend Law brought his wife back to his one-bedroom apartment. They are already working on child #2 and she doesn't work.

    Western Europeans are less concerned about your financial potential. They put more importance on quality of life in Western Europe. You have much more time off, paid family leave, paid maternity leave and paid child care. Free or low cost education is available in most EU countries.

    Finland has the best school system according to OCED and UN.

    I believe your right that the US school system turns our children brains to mush by not encouraging critical thought.

    Americans by and large are stupid or at least distracted by the wrong thing. Some actually believe its better to put their children into a private for profit school rather than do the hard work of improving our public schools. In the 1960's and 1970's California had THE state of the art school system not just in the US but the world and guess what model the Finish adopted; OURS!

    They do a much better job with it. Like most things in America there is a racial element here. White flight out of the inner cities and into the suburbs meant badly needed school funds were shifted to those schools and not the schools where mostly children of color go to school.

    The US is fundamentally fucked up or FUBAR. The reset button needs to be pushed. The national debt is not our problem, growing inequality, unemployment (U6-23%), the devaluing of dollar (worth .76 on the Forex exchanges) and a dysfunctional Government on climate change are our REAL problems.

    Yet most of the country is scared of Black SUV"s and Helicopters and rightly so, I got the hell out of dodge when the LAPD decided it had enough of Occupy LA. My boy Sam was in the same boat when he heard OPD (Oakland Police) was going to crackdown on Occupy Oakland, he high tailed it to Occupy SF and then Occupy Portland.

    These protest are small, compared to the protest against the invasion of Iraq. Yet look at the police response... I understand why people are scared and as long as their fear is more important than standing up to this imperial power structure, nothing will happen.

    Your on point my man...
     
  14. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    Thank god mr dusty pussy came back, place been so empty without him
     
  15. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member



    So Lipstick, who has not actively posted on this site in quite awhile, she's the voice of all the white women on this forum? One person speaks for all? Really? That's on some Iggy level shit right there, son. One person says something & everyone else gets painted with the brush. SMDH.
     
  16. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Dude when did I say every ww on here? Dont twist words. I just said the topic has been brought up before and people have been ridiculed for it
     
  17. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    i can see you dude wanting to date a woman from a foriegn country because he like the culture of the women from that country or something or another but to come across as I cant pull a woman from america because they dont get my swagg is well funny as hell.

    then to make it worse dude did some research looking shit to justify
     
  18. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member


    That's all you said, huh? You all but implied both Raider & Ches were ridiculing guys in general by their comments to the OP & the tone of his thread. When it was pointed out to you (since you pretty much were the only person who saw/thought that they ridiculing guys in general) that they weren't you felt the need to bring up the fact that the topic had been brought up before & that people were ridiculed as a defense for the way you came at them as if it in anyway had any relevance to this particular thread. If you relate to guys like the OP & DJ4Monie all well and good, but please stop reading into other peoples comments because they don't jive with your own opinions. Especially when you yourself say you see the weak ass bullshit the OP is on that they were basically commenting on.
     
  19. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Give direct quotes please
     
  20. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member


    This Post right here where you responded to one of my posts. You make it seem as if both Raider & Ches were making fun of dudes in general. This lead to Raider responding to clarify her stance. You also imply that I was trying to make you sound irrational.... :confused: Really? That's what I was doing? Explain how you came to that conclusion please?

     

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