Should Women Ask Men Out?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by K, Mar 30, 2015.

  1. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    Grown folks talkin here, sit down ;)
     
  2. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    petty is in the business of negative trolling:smt005
     
  3. K

    K Well-Known Member

    LOL well how will I ever learn, if you don't splain it to me?!
     
  4. K

    K Well-Known Member


    yes well he does live in his own lil world online
     
  5. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    I only troll u because I know u can take it

    Everyone else just flips out and threatens my family
     
  6. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    boys will be boys:smt062
     
  7. free816

    free816 New Member

    Lippy is fine like wine you dig married brothas surely take me to Hardee's on the aarp tip lol,, fucking with you, started getting that mail my damn self
     
  8. Cherok33

    Cherok33 Well-Known Member

    I don't recall ever truly asking man out on a whim. Closest thing I've done is jokingly ask a man when is he taking me out... I guess that's sortof the same.
     
  9. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    Lmao boy youz a phool :)
     
  10. K

    K Well-Known Member

    That's about what I've done, or some other version of the same.

    I just started thinking about it because unlike what Otis was saying, I've noticed a LOT of women asking men out. Hot women at that, who get asked out often. It's not because they aren't getting asked out, it's because they want to go out with who they want to go out with, so they started asking.

    Even though that's out in life, I wonder if the online thing has sortof fueled that. People aren't sitting around waiting so much hoping for someone to notice them now. Plus maybe after doing things online, they are more willing to try to do things out in life.

    IDK - I have had quite a few male friends over the years who got asked out all the time, often by women they ended up being interested in.
     
  11. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    Another good reason to make the first move. No one can read anyone else's mind and who better to know what it is that she's looking for?
     
  12. Cherok33

    Cherok33 Well-Known Member

    I can't think of a better reason than to go for what you want. Boss up!
     
  13. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    Damn straight! See, that's why you're awesome :freehug:
     
  14. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    Us young guys got it made!

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    If you read it, many of the guys tell stories of women coming onto them
     
  15. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    In his day, they had to get naked pictures developed at the store before giving them to their hoes
     
  16. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    One can be single and but dating. When I choose to navigate the foolishness of online dating, I get dates. I don't need to ask for them. The hard part is finding someone I actually want to go on a date with. Most guys I encounter are looking for something more casual than I am. Being alone is not my preference, but I'd rather spend quality time with myself than go on a date just for something to do. I date with the purpose of finding love, so I'm choosy.
     
  17. Otis

    Otis New Member

    Now that's interesting.

    I guess I'm swimming in the wrong circles, eh?

    (damn modernity!)
     
  18. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    Keep swimming in that pond. I guarantee there are good women fishing in it.
     
  19. Gemini74

    Gemini74 Well-Known Member

    mhm. i can cosign that.
     
  20. K

    K Well-Known Member


    We aren't talking about online dating. We are talking about "real life". The online thing is completely different.

    I know one can be single and not be dating. I have been single for several years now. I've often chosen to not date for periods of time.

    I guess I don't know how you really go about getting to know someone and finding out if you really want the same things unless you spend some time with them (dating).
     

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