Some BM Still Intimidated by WW

My dear Sir if you stay with ugly white girls nobody will say you nothing. If white girl is lovely in that case will start the problems .

 

Sure because no one has ever stereotyped or harassed black guys who chase ugly ww

 

Larry Flint had a spread with a popular porn star(I forgot her name and she was very popular in the 70's and early 80's, will look her up) with a black man. The author of the racist tome called The Turner Diaries wrote a book called Hunter. It was a story about a white man who hunts down interracial couples and shoots them to death. He wrote it in honor of a man who murdered two women who simply answered a question of if they would have sex with black men. He grabbed his .44 magnum revolver and shot one woman in his truck and chased the other down. The shooter was very proud of what he did as he sat in Death Row and was executed. My mom would say stuff like , "God made you black and he made a black woman for you." She wasn't very favorable of IR. She understands how I feel and she doesn't want to argue with me.

 

That is very true because they have a view of lovely white women with handsome white men. If the lovely white woman chooses to date outside, she is ignored and ostracized and they will let her and the man she chose know it. But this resentment usually comes from jealous and selfish white men.

 

I think there are also some who are so dogmatic and full of anti-black venom that they can't handle the idea of any bm/ww pairing. It literally drives them to fits.

 

i said this a long time ago....ww will get cut off from their families for dating a bm.

so recognize that fact when u decide to get into a serious relationship.

 

Thankfully, for some of us this either is not the case, or we are mature enough to deal with it.

I think it is true that it can be a completely different ball game for those who casually date, those who become seriously involved, those who marry, those who have children, and those who have children within marriage.

For those of us who live these things in an obvious daily basis (either in a serious relationship/marriage and/or with children) while we know it exists, it's not something to dwell on or live in fear of what others may think or do.

I only choose to have those around us who are accepting. That doesn't mean that there aren't times that things come up out in the world, they do - but so what? They have no true impact on our lives.

 

I have met women who were disowned by their fathers for dating black men over the past 20 years. I once knew a woman who was a friend of mine, who told me that she told her children that she will allow her children to date anybody but black. She told me this because she felt that she could tell me anything. She died a couple of months later. Porn star Sara Jay had been cut off for dating a black man. It is about the family dynamic. Bloodlines and standing in the community they live in. For those who do decide to go into this lifestyle with their eyes open, they are aware of how their family feels. But if that person is serious, that person should follow their hearts. How can there be love if people(of either race, religion or orientation) don't follow their hearts to love one another?

 

yeah u surely have to have good people around u.

 

Does that happen anymore? I wonder that looks like anymore.

 

I want WW to be bold enough to ask brothers for a date. That is one of the reasons I never travel to a American city since they are not as bold like the Aussie or European women. It is nice that the ones who want that brother on their own since they reject ones who don't like the brothers who hit on them.

 

Naw fam, ya'll got it all wrong. None of all this is the real reason why BM should be intimidated by ww. She's just bad. Take off runnin man. She want platinum, ice and gold
She want a whole lot of somethin' to fold
If you're an obstacle she'll just drop you cold
Little Mary's bad

 

It does still happen, and even though I know it does, there have still been times when I've been shocked by it all.

I know a man who is now 61 years old. In his lifetime he's dated different ww, often who had never dated a black man before. He's been involved with live in situations with ww too. I've knew him for years and knew the stories of some of his dating situations. Just a few years ago he started dating a woman who wouldn't be seen in public alone with him. Any time they went out it would have to be in a group. I was amazed that he would even deal with this chick. Not long after that he went on a cruise and a woman approached him. She chased him hard. She's a professor at a top college in CA. She's from a very wealthy family. She's only a few years younger than him. They were off and on for several years. She would take him to various events and such. He was even around the family and carried caskets of family members at funerals. But she swears if she were to tell her family that they were involved she would be cut out of the will. She's not willing to deal with that, and he goes along with the odd situation.

He's no slouch, he has his masters, he retired from the military and the government. He's financially secure. He raised 5 children basically on his own and took care of the rest of his family.

He and I haven't been friends for some time now because I lost respect for him when I found out that he was accepting such behaviors.

 

Dude has no self respect for himself.

 

Exactly! Very sad

 

I guess it does, but I haven't dated white women like that, so I wouldn't know. I can imagine it must be really tough on the relationship for the person who is close to their family.

 

I have no problem with open discussion, but this is on some dumb shit. Why are we even talking about this. Maybe I live in a liberal state that doesn't have the persistent racist shit that everyone feels overwhelms this country. I'm not blind to the blatant racism of "all people", but everyone (particularly the men) on this site seems to let it overwhelm their lives. I have never and will never have an issue finding women to date, regardless of their skin color. Maybe I just got game like that, but this shit is kinda old.

How many more discussions of this type do we need???? I say none.

 

What state are you from?

And why does talking about it make it seem like overwhelms anyone's life?
From what I can gather most of the men on here are educated, professional, and lead pretty happy lives. With the exception of a few I haven't heard anyone say that finding a ww is impossible but there are clear barriers that make it more difficult. Check out the OKcupid stats.

 

I agree with the main thrust of this post.
This quasi-obsession and mutual-objectification is amazing..
I am from the UK and it isn't like that there. Yes there are issues but in the large cities esp. people are generally bound more by class than by race - esp across the white/black divide.

This was some years ago and things are even more mixed up now.

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i agree. its a worn out topic. however when other topics are presented no one will discuss them. people dont want to discuss anything unless there room to trash a group or someone.