Thought on Plenty of Fish (POF) Dating Site

Then you would think they would have some money (car, etc).

There are guys on there who are prisoners too.

 

Yikes

 

Yep! some have pics in their cells even...they are right up front with it. Makes you wonder how many arent.

 

Well at least you know he was not at the bar last night

 

LOL

I had a guy hit me up and he was in prison out here (a well known one) and I had another guy who was talking to me at that time who works there.

 

oh no

 

It's real in the field!!! :smt070

Just because people are broke doesn't mean that they don't want to socialize and have sex - :smt042 That goes for women with 5 kids, people in jail, men who live at home and those going through middle age crisis. Everybody needs companionship...some people need marriage and others need to get a nut, but not everyone can have everything

 

True that but those people aren't for me and I gave them a try before....

 

I've tried a few dating sites in the past. A couple things I learned from them...

1. If you have a high annual income... hide it. There are an assortment of women who you have absolutely nothing in common with, but based on your earnings, will harass you to no end

2. Stick to your guns. If you want a woman who earns a similar amount as you, has a degree, doesn't smoke or do drugs, and doesn't have a bunch of kids from a bunch of different fathers, let it be known. If you don't, you will get messages from the bottom of the barrel who expect the most out of you.

3. Don't post too many photos of yourself. If you are even remotely attractive, someone is going to steal them for catfish purposes.

4. If you prefer a certain race, ethnicity, etc. (similar to sticking to your guns), let it be known. There is nothing worse then getting messages from the sistas if you aren't into them (It seems like they feel they own you somehow). Because many will look at your income, education, and looks and not even read your about me section... so, set your preferences before hand.

Good luck and I hope it works out for you.

 

Ok I want an update on how it went for the OP

 

I think it takes months to come to a conclusion on a dating website.

 

Seriously?

Nah - takes a couple weeks max.

 

Be attractive, be tall, have good style, have social pics with people who look cool. Have pics of you out with hot girls. If you're ripped, use a shirtless pic at a beach or something. Look like you have money. Don't come off as a nice guy. Throw some doucheyness in your profile. Your text hardly matters, especially if you have shitty pics (unattractive, bad style, nothing but selfies, pics with people who don't look cool). Dating profiles are about pics.

 

I don't think the older guys do well when they have pics of themselves with women in them.

 

Other than POF,what other dating websites that is good?

 

That's the benefit of being a woman with a bunch of horndog men running around

If a guy creates a profile I bet it takes him 6 months to get the amount of hits that an average looking woman will get in one day (15-25). It would probably take him a year to get what a very attractive woman will get in a day (probably 50-100).

 

I just heard on the radio that social media dating sites are directly to blame for the increase in STD's, and in particular, Syphilis... It was under control and numbers were at a low 6000 cases in past years ...but just last year alone, it had tripled.

 

Really?

Well just to put in in perspective. Yes we do get a lot of hits and may even get to interact with many but sooooo many of them are flakes and fakes. I have to wonder if maybe the actual amount who make it to a face to face meet may end up to be similar between men and women.

 

That's why I think a dating site for people with STDs should be publicized. We have dating sites based on religion, dating sites based on ethnicity, and even dating sites for farmers advertised everywhere, might as well advertise one for people with STDs.

 

They have them for Herpes and H.I.V, from what I understand.