But you gave me crap when I didn't sugar coat my opinion of you.... I wonder if Since and Loki think they're sugar coating? Some people can offer truth respectfully. I truly believe people use that "I don't sugarcoat" excuse to justify being an asshole.
Look I won't put either one of them on blast but it's very clear that sometimes they use kid gloves to avoid arguments and hurt feelings. Ches you are not self aware enough to have an honest opinion of me. On this forum there have been a couple who have been close though
Say what? How am I not self-aware and how would being more so help me to have an honest opinion of you? Your sentence makes no sense. My opinion of you may be wrong because I only know the persona you present here but that has nothing to do with self awareness.
w Apples and oranges....try again So when people question you or having a difference of opinion refer back to this statement when you feel offended.
When it comes to most discussions about women, I think many on this board would call you cynical and you tend to generalize about ALL women, not a particular type. Now, you can call that being 'realistic', or, you could take a step back and ask yourself is there a kernel of truth in the critiques others on this board are telling you about yourself??? The fact that you've never, apparently, or very infrequently, had a woman apologize to you for something is just unbelievable to me. Women over-apologize from my experience. When a woman CARES about the status and direction of a relationship, she tends to be overly concerned about her partner's feelings which means when she thinks she's screwed up, she says 'I'm sorry'. When applicable. And don't pull that B.S. that you're merely relating the sob stories you hear from other men about women, because most men don't bitch and moan about chicks to other men beyond some random generic complaint. This is about your experience with women, and if the views you express on this board are the same ones you carry with you into real life interactions with the opposite sex, I'd say a large percentage of the challenges you have with women originate from within.
You're 5'11. Above average height and taller than most women. Do you think your life would be radically different if you were 2 or 3 inches taller? That's defeatist thinking. There are short men who genuinely deal with professional and personal obstacles because of height. But you can't claim membership as a part of that group just because you feel like you'd be getting more social advantages if you were 6'2. I really think most of the shit you deal with is between your ears and very little of that has anything to do with your physical appearance. If you had some major deficiency maybe I'd think differently, but IMO you crave this physical ideal in yourself and ignore those advantages you already possess.
Well said. Tried to rep you... I'm thankful at least one man here can see and acknowledges what some of us women are seeing.
100%. I totally believe and KNOW this, yet so many people take it for granted that the personal energy you put out affects what kind of people you attract in your personal life. That's why IMO it's so critical to get your head and heart right when you're looking to meet people you want in your life. So many negative people don't even realize they're negative and are confused about why what they seek most never comes to them.
If you mentioned it once or twice every few months or a few times a year, I would say no but you talk about this kind of stuff all the time. It's a really common theme throughout a lot of what you post. And yeah, it is pretty negative. You have a really cynical view of women in general and while I'm not a psychologist or a relationship expert that's probably not a good sign. Every single man has had struggles with women. Lord knows I have. But I don't dwell on it constantly because if I did, it would spill over into other areas of my life. And like some of the other posters said earlier women do pick up on that and whether you like it or not, it will push them away. And as for gun violence, I'm probably more negative on that subject than anyone else on this forum...but you probably wouldn't know it by what I've posted so far. Calling things the way they are is fine, but when calling things the way they are is the only thing you do, and do over and over again? At that point it's just straight negativity.
Fair enough, and I do agree with that part actually. Having to approach someone or ask someone out puts the ball in their court. That kind of power is hard for anyone to give up voluntarily.
Like I've said before over and over my recognition of certain problems doesn't mean I personally suffer from said issue. I just notice these things and the reason I brought it up was to illustrate a point. I don't have any issues get women or maintaining relationships. When Oregon or Since talk about the advantages and preferences directed at men a certain height are they defeatist? Is it in between their ears?
Because the topic gets brought up often you act as if I initiate it all the time. A lot of my views are indictive of culture not personal bias. Do I have the same issues with racism because I talk about that shit frequently as well probably more so. Do I have a cynical view of American culture or an accurate one?
You've got me I have challenges with women because I critique their behavior as a whole. There are no gender specific norms that are cultivated and promoted through media and generalized adoption infantalizing women and giving them a Madonna complex. And these are things men talk about check out MGTOW there are a lot of men who feel that way but they aren't your super macho bad asses like you who don't ever have problem so how would you know? And when I said apologizes I wasn't necessarily talking about romantic relationships I'm talking about nearly any part of life where there needs to be accountability. Ask anyone whose had a gf who bitches about work how often she says well I could do this to make it better nope it's that bitch at work who's responsible for everythjng?
The unfinished rep you received was from me. My phone spazzed out and I lost it before I could finish it. :heart:
If you are looking to get laid then I think you would be better off asking a guy who's good at picking up females and getting laid.
