Well i have heard a couple of people said that people would like to know more about me instead of my sex questions. So i will share some info about me to you..

I am 29 years old, a single mom of a eight year old boy. I was married for eight years but now i am divorced because of alot of drugs, alcohol and domestic violence. I am new at this single thing again and it gets kind complicated. I am a full time college student almost finished with my associate degree in human services/criminal justice. i plan to continue my education to eventually get my master degree. I live in the lovely (not!) state of Ny where we seem to be getting the highest tax ever. I am not sure what more i could share, if anyone wants to know anything in particular please ask i am open......:smt038

 

Criminal justice! Are you going into law too? I'm a paralegal.

By the way congratulations on getting yourself and your son out of a bad situation.

 

I would like to be a probation/parole officer..

And Thanks it wasnt easy but life goes on and i am loving life now

 

thanks for sharing and welcome to the single life!
Its complicated in one way, but the freedom makes up for it. Make the best of it!

I'm really glad to hear you got out of your relationship.

 

Well i can agree on that!! single life does give you alot of freedom and i really enjoy that.

I have become more of a strong indpenedent woman!!!!!

 

What's your son getting for Christmas?:smt111

 

You proved that already when you got out of that relationship.

Remember that when you are single, the most important part is your freedom, use it, while you have it, to find selfconfidence so you know that the next time you want to be with a man you are choosing the right one. Not for sex, mind you, but for relationship. Sex is just sex.
Use the freedom, as much as you want.

 

Well i got him alot of tools that an artist would use, drawing pads, art board etc.. because he loves to draw. He is really good at it to. Also, lots of toys and clothes. He is such a good kid, he told me i didnt need to by him anything for christmas because he already got what he wanted a safe "life" and i thought that was really special.

 

Aww...:smt051 Did you just get divorced recently?

 

Thank you for the advice, I have already been asked out by a couple of guys and i turned them down just because i am not ready i think i need to fix myself first and it will be hard now for a guy to get into my life because i have alot of expectations of them and i am not trying to be a BITCH about it but i just think i need to be more cautious.....

i do love the freedom though i admit that :smt045

 

Yes and it was not that complicated as i thought it would be, i have full custody with no visitation because of the stuff that when on

 

Wow, quite an insightful 8 year-old. You're doing a great job with him, and I'm sure you're very proud.

Welcome to the board, by the way...

 

It's good that your careful with yourself. Most important is always to take care of yourself.

Still, apprieciate the romance, every date doesnt have to lead to something, sometimes its nice to just get the ego boost of being wanted.

 

It's always good to get out of poisonous relationships like that, you sound like a strong ambitious women. Hope you and your family have a nice holidays.

 

Thank You!!!

 

Thank You....

You and your family have a happy holiday's to...

You seem really nice to:smt002

 

A masters degree??....now thats what i call aiming high

so keep your head up, cuz only the sky is the limit

 

why is everyone so impressed by a master degree? No offence anyone.. but bachelor is dead basic, and well. It's just a master..

 

Wow. That's cool. I'm doing the same thing. I wanna work in law enforcement in some compacity

 

Yes thank you.. I will have my masters in about 2 years hopefully