OK, WOW, we learn something new every day!:axe: Any woman who thinks that way, won't have many women friends. :smt021:smt062:smt014:smt084 You better be ready for a CAT FIGHT!!
Ding, Ding, DINg Let's get ready to rumble, on the right side, we have Tink- who is a Maverick, a solid christian and a desert lover from the Southwest of USA On the left side, we have Serendipity- a staright shooter, a liberal New yorker from the Big apple Let the Bidding begin............. Just havin' fun folks
Meow :smt038 Some women do think that way. I didn't say I did. Anyways, what I don't get in any relationship where someone has an affair is blaming the other person rather than the partner/spouse. That is the person who decides and that is the person that should be blamed if one can blame them to begin with. Sometimes things in relationships, married or otherwise drive people to look outside. And yes a married man for some women that want to just have some fun would be a good choice as there is no chance of anything more developing. Those are just realistic facts.
OH, Yeah!! Bring it ON!! :smt071I live right next to Tombstone, we have FAST shooters out here! Chicken!! You backing out already??rayer: Here I was all geared up for a good fight!!:lol:
I'll admit it... if I was looking for no strings, just fun and the situation presented itself, we were both up front about what we want, I'd do him in a blink and think nothing wrong in it. Some people would say I have no morals but then again if the home cooking is good he ain't gonna want take out.
chat room Any wild and thick ww who have a strong conversation out here? I'll meet you in the Chat room...........................Oh....Happy new Year Disposa!
OK, yes the spouse it to blame, but the "other woman" is more likely to get the bullet, as elimination of the competition is the name of the game, believe me, wives, don't take kindly to another woman trying to "take" her man, they know he is to blame, but they "HATE" her and "LOVE" him. The worse thing for some is to feel like another woman took him from her, it speaks to her own insecurities, and makes her feel like trash, it has nothing to do with her really wanting to "keep him". It's more about, making sure she is the "alpha female" and then once she wins the fight, she'll "kick his butt to the curb!" in a heart beat!!:smt067 Some men are just scum, and they can have all they want at home and more, and still go looking elsewhere, because that's what scum does!!:smt068 You got that one right girl, so I take a hit here....
I'm rooting for Tinkerbell! Sorry but married men or even men in a ltr are a no no. I just couldn't do that to another woman.
What about his wife, do you consult her to be sure he's being "up front" about that, because if he's still sleeping with her, then your intrusion, makes her no longer part of the "consenting" equation unless you do! Because this now becomes, "sex between 3 adults, with 2 on 2 consenting"!:axe: Uh, - Maybe their right!! But then again, that's your choice, it's a free country!:smt077 Do what you like, but watch out, women have been known to use deadly weapons. :smt021
As soon as I even think my spouse is stepping out, he's gone to the curb likely with some broken bones and his package missing as I've flushed it (the Lorena Bobbitt maneouver). I couldn't care less about the scum that knowingly slept with a married man. Karma's a bitch (I don't mean the poster). Hard earned lessons have formulated distinct action plans. lol (ok I might not Bobbitt him, but would seriously consider it). My two cents. Oh yes, my age range is 36.2-36.8. jk
I totally understand you, and Karma would be interesting when he show up at her place without that package!!:smt109 You go girl!!
Another woman cannot "take" the man if he doesn't want to be taken. If the wife "LOVES" him and "HATES" her that is HER problem. If the woman he is cheating with is single, she has absolutely nothing to lose; yet the husband does. Wives should wake up and put the blame where it needs to be without trying to be the "alpha female". I don't buy that. Yes there are scum bags out there but I believe that in any marriage or long term relationship where there's infidelity there is cause for it; be it emotional or physical, I don't believe people cheat for no reason. It may not all be on the surface staring you in the face but deep down there are underlying factors that lead people to go out side of a relationship. Having said that, there are also women out there that think the man they're with will automatically change after marriage or thinking they can change them. There are lots of women who date men they know are no good but yet they still marry them and then when they end up fucking up in the marriage these women are shocked or disgusted or heart broken. I think we as women have to stop automatically attributing all the blame on the husband and take a look at the wife and how she may have contributed.
