No, I'd rather him be banned. I'm just thankful when he leaves me alone. He's like the bully on the playground...you want him gone, but you know he's always going to be there, so it's a good day when it's not -your- pants being pulled into a wedgie. I gave up hope a long time ago that anyone would ever band together to remove him from the forums, considering I've made multiple threads about it and all I ever get is a few people agreeing with me, and a shitload of people calling me a whiny drama queen for calling attention to it.
He's not just a bully he's a complete ass and should be banned. If I went around spouting violence against men and calling BM sluts and all sorts of degrading things, how long would I be allowed here?
First of all, I don't predicate my statements with Black or White (like you do), as it's more a gender than race thing we're discussing at any given time. I think your responses and others fall under the "thou dost protest too much" category to be honest. And to lump me in with BMJ? It is to laugh. Yet you consistently respond.
You're wrong about that. I'm beginning to think you just like using shaming techniques on the women at the board. I dunno why. It's not a waste of time to correct inaccurate smears. It is a waste of time to promote them.
Well the BM that does nearly the same thing to other BM's is still welcome here, so I'd imagine that you'd be fine.
bad men...crappy men...thugs... when is the last time you saw a man walking down the street with a sign on his forehead that said "i'm a crappy man" let's get real...yes, sometimes there are signs...red flags that you could trip over but i have to tell you in my experience being blindsided by a crappy man is more likely than signing up for one in the first place...some men and some women are very good at concealing the truth...you hear about people leading double lives...having whole other families...relationships...they turn out to not be what they told you they were...for the most part i believe what people tell me until they give me a reason not too...sometimes that reality comes along well into the relationship how do you define bad? what are the qualifiers? i bet that alot of women have the bar set at different levels...
the new guy is a simp for even trying to get with this girl because she is a loser. she is a donkey . he needs to get with a stallion
Women choose "bad guys" over nice men simply because they think MOST "nice guys" are too soft boring, plain, and predictable. Women love a man who takes charge and displays "alpha male like qualities." Alot of "Bad boys/Thugs" imitate those qualities. It has nothing to do with emotional abuse or self esteem issues. It has to do with here natural extinct of finding the strongest man. You also have to remember man are visual creatures but women are emotional. Alot of thugs give women an emotional high because their unpredictable, exciting???, and challenging. Alot of women's decisions is based off sex. Since alot of nice guys are boring in social and real life there boring in the sex life as well. It doesn't matter how nice you are or bad you think you are. It doesn't matter how much money or good personality you have. If you dont lay it down in the bedroom or back of the car she will cheat and leave your ass and alot of women cheat on there man with a thug/bad boy and go back to their husbands and have him buy her shoes while he's barely getting any from her.
Another thing to think about is what is a good man? Alot of "good men" are dogs in disguise anyways. There nothing but pussy beggers, and whinners. Alot of good men have a dry personality and think money and financial status can make up for it. Alot of them think there better then everyone else and have an ignorance to them. At least with a thugs she knows up front what she's getting. Im not defending thugs or women's poor choices. Im just saying alot of nice guys aren't so nice. There just wussified assholes.
You aren't talking about good men...you are talking about assholes. Money and education does not make a good man any more than being a thug and owning up to it make you a "stand up" guy. Being a good man means being capable of thinking about your woman before yourself...being willing to share your last piece of bread with your woman. Knowing when to defend your woman and knowing when to tell her that she is wrong. Being a good man means knowing how to take control but also how to step back when your woman has a better solution to a given problem. You seem to be confusing a "good catch" with a "good man." These are two entirely different things my friend.
I really shouldn't but I can't resist. 1.) Good catch = educated, financially secure, physically fit, nice car, owns some kind of property, somewhat attractive 2.) Good man = is capable of loving his wife and children more than himself, does not waste time with women he has no interest in besides sex, is responsible...etc. In other words a man can be a good catch but not necessarily a good man. A good man may have some qualities of a good catch but his biggest strengths cannot be quantitatively measured like bank accounts, net worth or percentage of body fat.
