ok ladies fess up you know for a fact you like to chase a man who is known to have slept with alot of women but turn around and slam a woman who slept with a lot of men..... so why do you women chase the men who slept with alot of women but get mad at a woman who slept with alot of men ?
There you go with the generalizing again. You need to insert that disclaimer Karma always recommends, something like 'this doesn't apply to all women, but IMO applies to some or most'. I think that some people believe that men are generally more naturally promiscuous than women, and therefore find a man who has had what they consider to be a lot of partners to be more acceptable than a woman with the same number. Promiscuous is not a set definition though, each person has their own idea of what qualifies as promiscuous in their mind. Personally for me I don't care how many people anyone sleeps with, that's their business, as long as they aren't screwing them while they're screwing me. I wouldn't purposefully seek out a man who has had a lot of partners, nor would I specifically avoid him. I think as long as you are happy with your own choices, what anyone else thinks is immaterial.
I thinkyou should ask the question why you see this. get another circle of women. I dont know a single woman that want a player. Some are very well disguised though - but if its clear he is - nope. When you are younger, you might not have learned that yet, sometimes its a matter of doing afew misstakes before you get the lesson. And btw, isnt it men that pat players on the shoulder and highfive them, but have very little respect for a woman that have done the same? eh.
Why do you feel the need to label either one of them a 'ho'? It's two people having consensual sex, who are you to judge them?
Most women will say they dont like a player, but the reason someone is labeled a player is because he has lots of women. There is a fundamental breakdown in logic here somewhere, LOL ..... I have only been with one player knowingly. The reason I dated him is because I didnt want a relationship. He was fun to be with, built like no one else I ever been with, knew how to make a woman scream, and generally kept coming round to see me. He was hard to say no to because he really was that good and there was no reason really for me to say no. I was ending my first marriage, going thru all that bs and here he is standing at my door looking good enough to eat. Whats a girl to do?
Welcome to Female Behavior 101. Where shit doesn't have to make sense and double standards are a way of life.
U just sour cuz Im right LOL "I will have the last word, everything you say after that is the beginning of a new argument" :smt043
