To hell with that. Find you a woman who wants to make that first million with you. Find a best friend and partner, who you can look back on this adventure with and know that you found the right one. Someone who can kick back and enjoy the good life with you when you get it, because she earned it with you. Find someone who you know will be in the lean years because she was, someone who you don't resent because you know how big a part she played.
Money buys time, and you want to spend that time with someone you like. And you're going to like the friends who were there now a lot better than the friends who weren't. There's no better way to know whether a woman wants you for your money than if she falls for you when you don't have any.
Life is more fun that way. Self Denial and hermiting is far more fun when it's in the movies, being done by someone else.
Live! That's what life's for.
</old lady rant>
sorry.