I feel where you're coming from Rocket. What you have to understand is that your average white woman view of black men is no different than your average white man's view of black men. I'm not saying that all white men and women dislike black men. However, I think that the majority of whites in this country have a very low opinion of black men. So you have to ask yourself this question. Why would a woman who doesn't think highly of you consider giving you her best years when she can give her best to a man that she views as being a catch?
In my area you'll see a lot of young white women with black men and half black babies. But as I traveled around country I got a chance to see what white America is really like. For the most part; white women have dislike for black men. Even thought every place is different that's one thing that was consistent. Most of the white women I observed avoid black men, scared of black men, think they're better than black men, or flat out hate black men. This doesn't apply to white women from overseas. They're the complete opposite of white American women based on my experience.
I lived in Oakland for 10 months and I couldn't wait to get the hell out of there. I saw everything touched on in your post Rocket. I noticed how young white women in their 20s over there in Oakland avoid black men at all cost. When these white women are looking their best and don't have any children they feel they're to good for black men. On the flipside, you have legions of older white women in their late 30s and 40s who exclusively date black men when that wasn't the case 15 and 20 years ago. At this point, these women are past their prime.
I doubt that any of these women will come out and tell you the reasoning behind their sudden change of heart so I came to my own conclusion. I think these women know that they market value has fail drastically. Lets fact it, at 40 most women aren't as attractive as they were when they were in their 20s. After kids most women bodies are permanently altered. This is what you get most of the time when you date women over 40 of any race. Now if this what you want then go and do you son. But I'm not rockin like that.
I think black men should avoid these type of white women. It sends the message to white women that no matter how tore up they are they can always pull one of us. It's obvious to me that these women weren't interested in us when they were worth dating. Now that they're not hot anymore they're on your dick? Fuck that my standards are to high to even consider glancing at a woman like that. If a woman can't give you her best then tell her to kick rocks. I advise black men not to accept any mediocre woman under any circumstances.