Well fuck, a lot of black women feel the same way about a "good black man." Don't give you the time of day, spend their best years chasing thugs down, then when they're old and used up with several thug babies, and their niggas are locked up, the boring guy with the union job and health insurance suddenly looks good.
This is a woman thing, not a WW thing in my opinion.
And of course you ignore the brothas who like older white women. Had their kids already, uninhibited, freaky and want to get back at their asshole exes, and you reap the benefits. Some of these women got money and wanna spend it on you. Win, win, win.