Question? Why do ww women like black men when they get older

LS,that was big headlines in the New York tabloids. Because she was rich and had a dad who is a ambassador the drinks flowed like water. She died either climbing on that balcony or tried to take a pix of herself on the cell she owned.
 
Well, like I said before, the sister that took me to these parties was only using me as an "entry ticket." I wouldn't say that all of the people at the parties are swingers - but a great deal are. It felt like I was on display. Every dance was like I was on a "test drive." Until you become known, someone "vouches" for you. Then, you receive an invitation...
 
Some of the parties weren't even parties at all. They were benign functions like a corporate sponsored "Casino Night" - even a wedding reception. This sister had injected herself into an entire Swinger community. She was out for money and sex and wrecking marriages; but she needed me to pacify the wives. I got caught up in it for a time...
 
Some of the parties weren't even parties at all. They were benign functions like a corporate sponsored "Casino Night" - even a wedding reception. This sister had injected herself into an entire Swinger community. She was out for money and sex and wrecking marriages; but she needed me to pacify the wives. I got caught up in it for a time...

sounds like some crazy times, nothing wrong with swinging, if that's your thing, but sounds(to me) like she used you - that's not really ok. unless, of course, you liked it... I drove 75 north yesterday & the traffic just before Toledo was insane, has it been like that all summer?;-)
 
I feel where you're coming from Rocket. What you have to understand is that your average white woman view of black men is no different than your average white man's view of black men. I'm not saying that all white men and women dislike black men. However, I think that the majority of whites in this country have a very low opinion of black men. So you have to ask yourself this question. Why would a woman who doesn't think highly of you consider giving you her best years when she can give her best to a man that she views as being a catch?

In my area you'll see a lot of young white women with black men and half black babies. But as I traveled around country I got a chance to see what white America is really like. For the most part; white women have dislike for black men. Even thought every place is different that's one thing that was consistent. Most of the white women I observed avoid black men, scared of black men, think they're better than black men, or flat out hate black men. This doesn't apply to white women from overseas. They're the complete opposite of white American women based on my experience.

I lived in Oakland for 10 months and I couldn't wait to get the hell out of there. I saw everything touched on in your post Rocket. I noticed how young white women in their 20s over there in Oakland avoid black men at all cost. When these white women are looking their best and don't have any children they feel they're to good for black men. On the flipside, you have legions of older white women in their late 30s and 40s who exclusively date black men when that wasn't the case 15 and 20 years ago. At this point, these women are past their prime.

I doubt that any of these women will come out and tell you the reasoning behind their sudden change of heart so I came to my own conclusion. I think these women know that they market value has fail drastically. Lets fact it, at 40 most women aren't as attractive as they were when they were in their 20s. After kids most women bodies are permanently altered. This is what you get most of the time when you date women over 40 of any race. Now if this what you want then go and do you son. But I'm not rockin like that.

I think black men should avoid these type of white women. It sends the message to white women that no matter how tore up they are they can always pull one of us. It's obvious to me that these women weren't interested in us when they were worth dating. Now that they're not hot anymore they're on your dick? Fuck that my standards are to high to even consider glancing at a woman like that. If a woman can't give you her best then tell her to kick rocks. I advise black men not to accept any mediocre woman under any circumstances.

I agree with you, but I would substitute the phrase "White Women" with the phrase "All Women". That's just what young naïve women do. I have an ex that didn't respect me in the least bit while we were together but now that she has 2 kids and one child on the way she treats me like the next best thing to sliced bread. And this is a black woman. I think that the "uppity" trait is just inherent in young naïve women in general.
Well fuck, a lot of black women feel the same way about a "good black man." Don't give you the time of day, spend their best years chasing thugs down, then when they're old and used up with several thug babies, and their niggas are locked up, the boring guy with the union job and health insurance suddenly looks good.

This is a woman thing, not a WW thing in my opinion.

And of course you ignore the brothas who like older white women. Had their kids already, uninhibited, freaky and want to get back at their asshole exes, and you reap the benefits. Some of these women got money and wanna spend it on you. Win, win, win.

Absolutely.
 
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sounds like some crazy times, nothing wrong with swinging, if that's your thing, but sounds(to me) like she used you - that's not really ok. unless, of course, you liked it... I drove 75 north yesterday & the traffic just before Toledo was insane, has it been like that all summer?;-)

I can see that you are not a novice in the art of insinuation.;)
 
sounds like some crazy times, nothing wrong with swinging, if that's your thing, but sounds(to me) like she used you - that's not really ok. unless, of course, you liked it... I drove 75 north yesterday & the traffic just before Toledo was insane, has it been like that all summer?;-)
wassuuup? I haven't been west of Lorain for a while. I haven't even gone to Cedar Point yet this year. Do you like Cedar Point?
 
Maybe because people tend to focus less on what others think about them when they get older.


I see interracial couples of all ages, all the time.
 
Maybe because people tend to focus less on what others think about them when they get older.


I see interracial couples of all ages, all the time.

This is what I said earlier in the thread - lots of negative ideas in here.


I really do think it has more to do w what you said than that a womans stock goes down as she gets older and then goes to bm.
That is really putting bm down btw - and the ww in question. Like there are no feelings involved at all.

If you never were attracted to bm, your not all of a sudden gonna go there.... Even if your stock went down - so does the stock for men as well so these women, whos "stock" went down would have plenty of opportunities w wm. Saying anything else is silly.

We, in general seem to be more distracted what others think when we are younger compared to when we are older.
 
This is what I said earlier in the thread - lots of negative ideas in here.


I really do think it has more to do w what you said than that a womans stock goes down as she gets older and then goes to bm.
That is really putting bm down btw - and the ww in question. Like there are no feelings involved at all.


Whatever, there are plenty of women who go for brothers who are higher quality than any white man than they'd be able to get (if skin color is taken out of the equation) when they get older. And they can usually get them because black men generally have very low standards for WW. Look at how many white women you got running around talking about how they only date younger black men, and these pathetic negroes who pound their chests talking about how much they love "cougars" (ie the white man's leftovers).

It's pathetic.
 
Whatever, there are plenty of women who go for brothers who are higher quality than any white man than they'd be able to get (if skin color is taken out of the equation) when they get older. And they can usually get them because black men generally have very low standards for WW. Look at how many white women you got running around talking about how they only date younger black men, and these pathetic negroes who pound their chests talking about how much they love "cougars" (ie the white man's leftovers).

It's pathetic.

easy tiger...!!!!

so much absolute rubbish in that paragraph that i don't know exactly what to address first. guess my question is, why so bitter...??
 
Seems to me sometimes that black people do more to keep themselves down than white people do...
 
I'm guessing that he hasn't been laid in a while, if ever.

i concur :smt043:smt043

but then again, i'm a cougar who goes after bm who are of higher quality than any wm i can get. luckily bm have lower standards for ww or i'd be up the creek without a paddle
 
(elaborate, please)...

Just all this self hating stuff. Like everything any black man ever does reflects on you personally. It's like black men are the ones who perpetuate these negative stereotypes because they can't stop whinging about them.
 
Its not often that I see "old" white women with good looking BM.

His looks are generally on par with hers.


9 times out of 10, you're not going to see some decent WW with this handsome Shemar Moore looking type BM.


People attract what they are. If anything, I see very pretty WW with average WM all the time.


If the BM is a '8', his girlfriend or wife is more than likely going to be an '8'.


None of this disproportionate propoganda folks are claiming.
 
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