I :heart: hypocrisy.

 

Nope not Hypocrisy, that's me doing what I feel is right and letting others decide whether they feel the same or not, in the case of the mate of the ex I dated, he obviously decided he wasn't fussed.

 

Gotta agree. I won't efen hang with my new guy at any of the places I know my ex frequents, despite the fact the ex and I are somewhat friends.

 

again bros before hoes.

if she was just a jump off then she is game to be a jump for you .... nothing more....the rule is let him know because he will let you know she was a jump off back then before you planned on getting with her.

but to be on the safe side dont stick it at all.

bros before hoes

 

:smt023

 

I agree with my 3 girls here...Either the story between two people is over or not. If it's over - it would be very selfish to stand between them and if I am the one, who is interested in my friends EX, I wouldn't even think about dating him, except I have serious feelings for that man. And if that is the case, I must say .. :smt018 "get out of here, you've had your chance!" LOL

 

you're not here often enough c...!!! so wonderful to see you again lovely lady :smt006

 

To me it's easy. Chicks before dicks. Plus I would feel like I was picking off my friend's plate and I honestly don't wan't to think if he was the same with her as with me

 

Hey and hello my lovely australian friend

 

I understand what you are saying, but don't you also think that these two people simply didn't fit together -there was a serious reason, why they broke? And it could be that you miss a chance to find a wonderful person for you? If he had now sex with her or not, I don't care. I anyway think that sexuality changes with every partner, it's always different. I wouldn't take anything away from her,because she gave him free.

 

For the most part relationships come and go and friends last forever, so that is why I won't go there

 

This is a man that gets it, plain and simple. Rep +1

 

I don't think I would. But when it comes down to it, it's not up to me who my friends or any ex's date. It's their business, not mine.
Likewise, it's my business who I date and no one elses.
Sure I might get hurt feelings or they might get hurt feelings over it, but if you wanted them, why are they an ex? Plus, you can claim everyone. Once you let them go...they can do whatever the hell they please.

I say, get over it and move on.

I'm so glad I don't need to date. Being married has its advantages. :smt042

 

to bosoxlady.....LOL. Love that statement. you may want to copyright that. LOL

Thanks RRoyce.

 

Thanks love

 

Without the BF? I can't see how you wouldn't think that was a big deal.

 

I have and I would do it again in a heartbeat. The way I see it any of my niggas can have any of my ex pussy. If a friend of min and one of my exs wanted each other I see no reason to let me stop them from getting together, because I certainly wouldn't let my friendship stop me from pursuing the woman I want. To be honest I would go after my friend girl if we shared a strong mutual attraction. There are no boundaries i would cross to get the woman i want.

 

I agree with your boyfriend .... that is total disrespect.

I was dating a woman ( we were together for about 6 months to a year before this situation) and my friend ( over 30 years of friendship) was to meet me over my gurls house . he beat me there. He stayed in his car until I came.

I asked "you just pulled up"

he stated " no. I have been here 10 minutes. I went to the door and your gurl said you wasnt here yet. so I stayed here"

I stated " you could have waited inside"

he stated " fuck no. bro code states you never be alone with you bro's gurl. bro's before hoes"