the pressure of looking thin

OpenHeart said:
Kunoichi...why are you being so hostile toward me??? What are you talking about? I'm not trying to guilt anyone about anything. I think you came on the back end of this and then ran off half cocked with some kinda wild idea that entered your head. :rolleyes:

There's a lot of warm and nice people here, but how can anyone truly enjoy a good forum with this sort of ruckus going on each day with some of the members who love to:smt021?:smt102
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One of the common traits of passive–aggressive behavior is victimization. Woe is you. Because all your posts are flowers and butterflies.

Hey flat ass (how's that for hostility), enjoy...! ---> http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?t=16721 :smt110
 
Kunoichi said:
One of the common traits of passive–aggressive behavior is victimization. Woe is you. Because all your posts are flowers and butterflies.

Hey flat ass (how's that for hostility), enjoy...! ---> http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?t=16721 :smt110
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Please know that I'm not asking for you to feel sorry for me. I'm asking you to stop the hostility. You don't have to like me...just stop the drama...okay???:mad:

BTW...I didn't click your link. Whatever, it's about I decided to let you enjoy it alone.:roll:
 
Unique4ever said:
Well, Im white and I consider black women to be very beautiful too!
As a matter of fact when I was a teenage girl I even wished I was black!
Isnt it normal for a person who is into black man and simply loves the skin color, to see black females as beautiful too?
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lol...I used to wish I was white only when my parents were beating my ass because I thought white people never got whoopings.

 
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OpenHeart said:
She still looks very good. She's pretty. She's thick...not fat. A man should want some meat of his bone. If a woman has a nice waistline with a C or D cup and a rounded derierre to booth and weigh less than 200 rather than more than 200, she is considered to be thick. Below is an example of fat and even they have no problem getting a BM if he likes a lot of meat on his bone.

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blackbull all-stars in full effect

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fabio852 said:
no... nothing with you having black girl friends.
Just think that is realy suspect how was your point about black guys and white girls on almost every post on this forum.

and how great black woman are in your point of view!! like the most good looking women on this planet and etc.

i mean why you are here anyway?
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Unique4ever said:
Well, Im white and I consider black women to be very beautiful too!
As a matter of fact when I was a teenage girl I even wished I was black!
Isnt it normal for a person who is into black man and simply loves the skin color, to see black females as beautiful too?
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every person should consider the other race of any race for that matter they are beautiful. No one race has beauty cornered

xoxo said:
:smt105 THIS IS A BLACK WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Brittney said:
You all really need to stop. A woman who doesn't hate or bash BW and who has a positive opinion about their usual(?) body type doesn't make her a BW or someone who shouldn't be here. Ya'll got issues.
It's like this place is turning into a forum where the majority's goal is to "catch/call out the troll first" or "someone who doesn't hate BW is a troll" and it's really fucking annoying.
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hey brittany, you would be really shocked at how people in this forum call you suspect if you dont degrade bw. look at the following threads:

hottest bw thread
Halle Berry claims ex called her the N word thread
something is wrong thread
karma and smooth

and you will eventually see hatred toward BW. If you think BW are beautiful they will call you ignorant and a black loyalist....just go see. there are just a handful of those people.
 
goodlove said:
every person should consider the other race of any race for that matter they are beautiful. No one race has beauty cornered





hey brittany, you would be really shocked at how people in this forum call you suspect if you dont degrade bw. look at the following threads:

hottest bw thread
Halle Berry claims ex called her the N word thread
something is wrong thread
karma and smooth

and you will eventually see hatred toward BW. If you think BW are beautiful they will call you ignorant and a black loyalist....just go see. there are just a handful of those people.
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Goodlove....the BW in disguise to the rescue..lol
 
Brittney said:
You all really need to stop. A woman who doesn't hate or bash BW and who has a positive opinion about their usual(?) body type doesn't make her a BW or someone who shouldn't be here. Ya'll got issues.
It's like this place is turning into a forum where the majority's goal is to "catch/call out the troll first" or "someone who doesn't hate BW is a troll" and it's really fucking annoying.
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I'm loving you for that Brit, I've been trying to say that for the last 6 months but they don't listen no one, LOL
:smt045
 
babybro said:
Hahaha, I always like how these weight situations are explained. It's so funny that we focus so much on the pressures of losing weight when our clear problem has been the opposite. Statistic shows that only 8% of the population have or had an eating disorder, with ladies being 6% of that. (You would never know that guys do the same thing since we've only seen women doing it.) On the other hand. 30% of the population is OBESE. Not overweight, but obese. Like the images that was posted before where people can't wipe their own butt? Yeah, 30% of our population is like that. That is over 3 times the amount
of those with eating disorders. Over 70% of the population is overweight. 70 freakin percent. That's abysmal and ridiculous. I just went over to Japan and it was like night and day. Everybody was in shape, no plump tub of guts sitting
inside the midsection for miles around. America statistically is the fattest country in the world. Yet we focus almost as much time, if not as much time, on a disorder that barely affects 8% of the population over one that affects 70%? Where is the logic in that?
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People are lazy ass fuck and want to make bullshit excuses and our bad food is very addictive so it makes it hard(not impossible) to eat other foods.

I like what Ymra said about extremes especially on this site. Wome on here make it seem as though the only weights that exist are either 100lbs or over 200lbs and if you're under 100 you have an eating disorder but if you're over 200 you're healthy and confident. The average woman in this country is 5'4 and the average weight for that height is 125 allowing five lbs for every inch above or below that. I wish people would just STOP LYING. If you're happy being fat then say you're happy being fat there's no shame in it but stop pretending its ok (excluding the 2% with health problems).
 
Brittney said:
You all really need to stop. A woman who doesn't hate or bash BW and who has a positive opinion about their usual(?) body type doesn't make her a BW or someone who shouldn't be here. Ya'll got issues.
It's like this place is turning into a forum where the majority's goal is to "catch/call out the troll first" or "someone who doesn't hate BW is a troll" and it's really fucking annoying.
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Good point.
 
MrFantastic said:
The average woman in this country is 5'4 and the average weight for that height is 125 allowing five lbs for every inch above or below that. I wish people would just STOP LYING.
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Mr. F. I wish what you'd written was true (you've described someone with a healthy BMI at 5'4" and 125lbs) because then the American health care costs would likely be waaaay down from where it is today. Here are some stats from the NIH which demonstrate that over 2/3 of Americans are overweight or obese which means the average American woman is not at an ideal (health-wise) BMI. (I've copied and pasted the relevant section).
(website: http://www.win.niddk.nih.gov/statistics/index.htm#overweight)

Q: How many adults age 20 and older are overweight or obese (Body Mass Index, or BMI, > 25)?

A: Over two-thirds of U.S. adults are overweight or obese.[4]
All adults: 68 percent
Women: 64.1 percent
Men: 72.3 percent

Q: How many adults age 20 and older are obese (BMI > 30)?
A: Over one-third of U.S. adults are obese.[4]
All adults: 33.8 percent
Women: 35.5 percent
Men: 32.2 percent

Q: How many adults age 20 and older are extremely obese (BMI > 40)?
A: A small percentage of U.S. adults are extremely obese.[4]
All adults: 5.7 percent

Q: How many adults age 20 and older are at a healthy weight (BMI > 18.5 to < 25)?
A: Less than one-third of U.S. adults are at a healthy weight.
All adults: 31.6 percent
Women: 36.5 percent
Men: 26.6 percent
 
Athena said:
Mr. F. I wish what you'd written was true (you've described someone with a healthy BMI at 5'4" and 125lbs) because then the American health care costs would likely be waaaay down from where it is today. Here are some stats from the NIH which demonstrate that over 2/3 of Americans are overweight or obese which means the average American woman is not at an ideal (health-wise) BMI. (I've copied and pasted the relevant section).
(website: http://www.win.niddk.nih.gov/statistics/index.htm#overweight)

Q: How many adults age 20 and older are overweight or obese (Body Mass Index, or BMI, > 25)?

A: Over two-thirds of U.S. adults are overweight or obese.[4]
All adults: 68 percent
Women: 64.1 percent
Men: 72.3 percent

Q: How many adults age 20 and older are obese (BMI > 30)?
A: Over one-third of U.S. adults are obese.[4]
All adults: 33.8 percent
Women: 35.5 percent
Men: 32.2 percent

Q: How many adults age 20 and older are extremely obese (BMI > 40)?
A: A small percentage of U.S. adults are extremely obese.[4]
All adults: 5.7 percent

Q: How many adults age 20 and older are at a healthy weight (BMI > 18.5 to < 25)?
A: Less than one-third of U.S. adults are at a healthy weight.
All adults: 31.6 percent
Women: 36.5 percent
Men: 26.6 percent
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My bad Athena. Point well made. I don't get why so many people support this unhealthy shit and then have the nerve to call someone shallow when they bring it up.
 
Athena said:
I didn't post to disagree with your thoughts Mr. F. I just want folks to realize the breadth of this "epidemic". I, like you, wish everyone was healthy (incl myself of course!) . :)
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According to some of the geniuses on this forum big is beautiful and healthy. I'm with you I definitely on my health grind. I want to LIVE.
 
Not to disagree with some of your valid points, but BMI is just a number. I have stated the same thing in national conference. I look at BMI as another piece of information & use it as a reference point but I dont make my decision soley based on that number. I look at that person as individual, what are their risk factors-social-drinking/tobacco, genetic predisposition, past medical history, what are their habits-healthy eating big bone person or a fat slob inhaling three double cheese burgers in a second. If you look at some of the most athletic and fittest NBA or NFL players they might have a BMI way above 25 or close to 30. What is that mean? really nothing.

Having said that Americans are the fattest and lazy fuckers I have ever seen, land of abundance, lol.
 
MrFantastic said:
People are lazy ass fuck and want to make bullshit excuses and our bad food is very addictive so it makes it hard(not impossible) to eat other foods.

I like what Ymra said about extremes especially on this site. Wome on here make it seem as though the only weights that exist are either 100lbs or over 200lbs and if you're under 100 you have an eating disorder but if you're over 200 you're healthy and confident. The average woman in this country is 5'4 and the average weight for that height is 125 allowing five lbs for every inch above or below that. I wish people would just STOP LYING. If you're happy being fat then say you're happy being fat there's no shame in it but stop pretending its ok (excluding the 2% with health problems).
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desreveRsIgnitirW said:
This thread was building up to be one of the funniest on the site.
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MrFantastic said:
According to some of the geniuses on this forum big is beautiful and healthy. I'm with you I definitely on my health grind. I want to LIVE.
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I have heard that some over-wieght people are just as healthy as the socalled thin people. thin doesnt mean you are healthy. When I was in the military there was one dude who was a boxer. he was a huge dude meaning he was about 5'9 and close to 240 (at least had to be) they were always threatening to throw him out due to his weight but despite getting the best PT (physical training) score. The PT score means you have to do a min amout of pushups , sit ups and a low 2 mile timed run
 
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