You write from a very grounded and rational perspective, Big Brother. Tis so refreshing to hear a viewpoint that speaks out against bigotry and irrational hatred. (Hmm, and we've yet to develop a word that specifically refers to 'religionism'!)
I would venture to say that extremism and hate-mongering fundamentalism from all types of religions causes trauma and grief worldwide, just as more moderate proponents of most religions tend to put forth a more peaceful and harmonious way of being.
Having dated both Muslims and Christians, I find that its more about shared values and beliefs than it is about religion.
Quite frankly, I don't want to date someone who is forcing anything down my throat...
*wry grin*