The other side of the coin

If you have trouble with a bw over dating a ww, just set her up with a wm. Simple. Everyone's happy, no one's lonely. :p
 
mikesandy said:
Okay, thanks for clarifying. BW really shouldn't have to pit themselves against WW (fighting them) over the fact that a BM dates a WW. Usually the people who that think lowly of themselves or others would be the first to start things up.
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Yeah in an ideal world they shudn't but we all now it's not an ideal world..

I have talked to many racist, and I always start with listening to them for a while and by doing that they often listen to me later.. all racists aren't evil.. some just haven't had the time to think things thru.. and some have had too much hate in their life

that's just my experience, listening to someone doesn't cost a thing

if u have another opinion u are very free to express it.. and I promise to listen.. haha
 
goodlove said:
thats for sure.

or you can ...wait... wait....masturbate IR
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goodlove said:
I hope you dont meet em either. I have met a few tho.
There is nothing you can do to help the situation except do the right thing. You can control feelings of other people. just be the good you
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thing is I can be very charming, believe it or not, when I feel like

so if I don't feel like beefing with someone I usually don't have to either
 
sockervadd said:
thing is I can be very charming, believe it or not, when I feel like

so if I don't feel like beefing with someone I usually don't have to either
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you e-beefing again? who you e-beefing with this time? Didn't they teach you to cover yo self, keep you head down, and not to speak to a man in your culture? smdh.

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goodlove said:
OK
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GL, when I see a discussion dumbing down like this, that's exactly what I say to Mike too...OK. I always remind myself that he's just a kid. He's a good boy, but he is definitely on the mischievious sometimes. I guess that's why I like him a little bit.:D He loves to attack while you're fighting with someone else. What is the term? Double Team Ya? :smt042
 
mikesandy said:
Whatever man. No offense, but you make things harder for this coupling to be accepted in society when you always have to keep referencing internal self-hate and bashing BW when it isn't needed. Referencing that European features/having white skin is the universal standard of beauty doesn't help either.

It would be better to say that the standard of beauty is universal and transcends race/skin complexion.

I'd like to see Sockervadd and OpenHeart argue against this, but they'll just say that they have "thick skin" and nothing we say will phase them. Everyone here could say that the sky is blue and they'll argue and stand by the fact that they believe the sky is green. They'll just use their "toughness" to pointlessly defend their beliefs.[/QUOTE]


I have only one question for you...Why do you enjoy lying on people so much.:smt107​
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sockervadd said:
well we are not discussing what u would write or not write on a wm/bw-site.. we are discussing what a black woman wrote here, and I personally want to hear the bw perspective since i know Ill probably get with a bm with bw in his family...
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And in her long litanous post what did you learn from it, enlighten me please. Point by point I would love to hear what you took away from it that will be so useful. Instead of speaking about her perspective, tell me what she stated that was so poignant for future reference.

What did you garner from what she wrote that was so insightful about the black woman's perspective of black men who date white women and what is said about black women.

You speak as though she speaks for black women, she speaks for herself, what she feels is her feelings, the next black woman could feel completely different, secure in themselves and not give a damn about a black man with a white woman. Her experience is no more or less important than the next regular schmo on the street.

Its often insecure people that worry about these things. If someone is handling their business they can care less about what others have to say, dirt off the shoulders in the end, nothing more.

My bottom line is and remains, there are black men that date white women, white men that date black women, Asian women that date white men, white women that date Asian men, black men that date black women, white men that date white women, etc.

You keep talking about black woman's perspective as though that is suppose to be important when there is no singular black woman's perspective, it varies depending on the black woman, irregardless of whether you are with a black man or not. You can have a boyfriend with a terrific family of black women or an awful bunch, nothing stated here by this hit and run poster alters that, moreover they all will have their own individual reasons for their mindset.

There are black women that don't date black men, even this poster stated that, I didn't for one second care why that is the case, because I am secure and confident in myself to not be concerned about people's personal choices in life. I live one life and I'll be damned if anyone else dictates to me about my interests.

I'm a tolerant individual but I can recognize game when I see it, and this poster was rank, bigging herself up to feel better. Cmon with that already.
 
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GQ Brotha said:
And in her long litanous post what did you learn from it, enlighten me please. Point by point I would love to hear what you took away from it that will be so useful. Instead of speaking about her perspective, tell me what she stated that was so poignant for future reference.

What did you garner from what she wrote that was so insightful about the black woman's perspective of black men who date white women and what is said about black women.

You speak as though she speaks for black women, she speaks for herself, what she feels is her feelings, the next black woman could feel completely different, secure in themselves and not give a damn about a black man with a white woman. Her experience is no more or less important than the next regular schmo on the street.

Its often insecure people that worry about these things. If someone is handling their business they can care less about what others have to say, dirt off the shoulders in the end, nothing more.

My bottom line is and remains, there are black men that date white women, white men that date black women, Asian women that date white men, white women that date Asian men, black men that date black women, white men that date white women, etc.

You keep talking about black woman's perspective as though that is suppose to be important when there is no singular black woman's perspective, it varies depending on the black woman, irregardless of whether you are with a black man or not. You can have a boyfriend with a terrific family of black women or an awful bunch, nothing stated here by this hit and run poster alters that, moreover they all will have their own individual reasons for their mindset.

There are black women that don't date black men, even this poster stated that, I didn't for one second care why that is the case, because I am secure and confident in myself to not be concerned about people's personal choices in life. I live one life and I'll be damned if anyone else dictates to me about my interests.

I'm a tolerant individual but I can recognize game when I see it, and this poster was rank, bigging herself up to feel better. Cmon with that already.
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U are absolutely right all bw are not the same BUT if one bw find something disturbing and feels that bw has been bashed chances are others will too.. and werent u guys complaining there has been soooo many others presenting the same arguments..

easy to just dismiss everyone with uncomfortable opinions as trolls.. not saying they are not, not saying they are.. just saying before dong that everyone maybe shud just take some time thinking about can she be right, troll or no troll
 
sockervadd said:
actually i dont think that's the case.. I think they know there will be enough men for them too.. I think it is a response to how they have been treated by whites in the past.. And I think they are mad cus bm are alligned with the enemy, so if ww women want respect from bw we have to respect them first
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Holy cow. W.T.F. :confused::eek:

Black men were treated poorly in the past as well by white men, black women were raped and some had consensual relations with said white men, I don't think today however that when I see a black woman with a white man she is sleeping with the enemy, its freaking 2011. That notion doesn't even enter the frame of thought.

Respect is a two way street, everyone has to individually respect the other person first if they expect the same in return, black, white doesn't matter, its a personal value system of each individual.
 
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