FELLAS WHAT DO YOU THINK?

Good riddance to you or Mr.Fantastic or to this website

 

Yo get em skinny women some sammiches.

Subtlenote- #1 fan of healthy women who enjoy sammiches.

 

Geez, posters like you are driving the women off of the site. Before you know it, the only people that frequent the site are just BM. :smt043

 

Healthy women does not necessarily fat women ok?

Youngblood that response she gave was to Fantastic's statement so i am not making anybody leave here and trust me some people need this site because without this site they ain't shit so trust me they wont leave they will stick it out.

 

Andrae, there are some points made in the original video that did hold firm from a logical perspective. However, the more you show what your perception was of the video, the less sense it makes. Sorry.

I'll give 1 simple for instance:
If you look at a man's porn, all your going to find is what he is "comfortable" being caught with. Remember the part of the video where she mentions how social status may drive the need to date higher on the (american) socio-economic latter? Well the porn a person decides to "keep" with them is a further extension of that. It doesn't mean they aren't watching or keeping "other" porn that they wouldn't dare be caught dead with. There's a shitload of porn out there man, I'm sure I don't need to remind you of that....


Also....
You seem to have an unhealthy fixation on wealth, proven by your constant concern with what doctors, lawyers, and engineers are doing with their lives. Is there really no other type of profession that you would consider respectful in the eyes of others. I Know dozens of people that have gone to law school and they hang out with whoever. They don't just go driving around in their Mercedes and BMWs with hot white women with fake boobs hanging out the window, man. You seem to put certain types of people on pedestals, and that is quite unhealthy because if you yourself don't achieve such "grand status", you'll start considering your own life to be a failure.

Is this logical?

 

There have been people (guys and girls) complaining repeatedly that Andre bashes women. You probably haven't seen it or overlooked it, but it is there. Also, at times, what you say about women on here isn't very positive either.

 

Oh boy another person who doesn't get it. I said if you look at a man's porn you know what he truly desires and doesn't even need to be the physically enhanced women but the amateur porn he might look at.
I never implied you had to be a doctor or a lawyer or any other profession to be happy actually I think most people in those professions are miserable because of the unbelievable long hours they have to keep.
My point was if you see bm who achieve a certain amount of wealth that date interracially you rarely if ever see them with overweight white asian latin or whatever.
Only when the men don't have much do you see their "preference" as overweight women. I'm not saying this is an absolute but it's something I've observed.
I don't think money and success yield happiness I just think they afford you comfort and time true happiness comes from within but the point of me posting the video was to explore what the video poster was saying with people who are IR relationships or hope to be like myself.
It really isn't as serious as some are trying to make it to be.

 

Yes, it is as serious as we are making it out to be. We are in the real world, dealing with real-life consequences. We're not in your world and the world doesn't operate in the way you perceive it to be.

 

Well monique was humongously obese and that is a fact . Now she has slimmed down to become fat that is also a fact.

 

I am very calm right now. I feel that I need to say that so you can truly understand the way I would sound if I were speaking to you.

Andrae, that was out of line. Emotions are not nonsense, and logic is not the be all and end all. In fact, men love to use that as an excuse not to actually engage and to hurt feelings so they can say "sorry, but logic says so....you can't get hurt based on logic." Bullshit.

And this business of treating women like children? Are you serious, or just talking out of your ass for maximum impact? That is, by far, the most sexist, misogynistic, hateful, disrespectful statement you have ever written. Is that how you treat and view the women in your family? The women you get into relationships with? I suppose I'm actually hurt and surprised by this comment because I spend time defending you....and I dont feel you meant it, but if you do, it saddens me.

Men and women are different. Plain and simple. Emotion isn't weakness and logic isn't strength and visa versa. We are made this way to balance each other out. It is so tiring to be sitting here in 2011 debating race and womens equality.

And APPIAH, period jokes? Really? Because a woman can't be emotional unless she's on the rag, amiright? *sigh*

 

you are so off base...my ex graduated gorgetown with a law degree...decided not to become a lawyer...now works for cnn...we are still in contact...on each others radar...his money...his house...his car...his job...say nothing about the women he is attracted to...he is a very tall large man...he likes women with some meat on their bones...the first date i met him for coffee...after we finished having coffee...he walked me to the car...we left...within an hour he called and asked me to dinner that night...one of the first things he said was that there was no way he was letting all that ass get away from him...i will tell you that because he was so forward about expressing how much he loved my body that i could have cared less if he was a lawyer or the garbage man...to me having a man be into me without any judgement is so damn sexy...

 

Good for you but do you think that situation was the exception or what usually happens?

 

well, he is not the only lawyer i have dated...and i might add that he is younger than me...i have dated quite a few successful bm and some not so successful...the thing is that i don't date based on their bank balance...i date the men that i am attracted to and the ones that are attracted to me...it's a two way street...

 

For the most I do talk to women in my life like children because that's how they want to be handled. Women in general (not every single one I know or meet) tend to be far more easy to offend by words. Look at this thread you notice how there were far more women offended by this thread then men. And again let me remind you the subject can be equally as offensive to the men on this forum as the women but for the most part they either stay out of the thread or throw their two cents in with out being insulting or defensive.

DB logic is how we've gotten from the stone age to the dark ages to the modern age. Emotions are what slow down evolution. I'm not saying they don't give enjoyment but in terms of survival and the reason why our species is here it has very little to do with it. At least imo.

 

You got something against women that eat sammiches? Being a pretty sucessful guy, i can tell ya that i need a woman with a booty, not the other way around; nothing wrong with being overweight if you are healthy, there are plenty of sexy, healthy women out there who carry some junk in the trunk. Then again, it seems like what you are talking about is your preference, and you are extrapolating that anecdote to the larger populace ( and i dont think you've said anything otherwise either for people to be beating up on you).

 

I disagree with what's in bold.

http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/01/06/phys-ed-can-you-be-overweight-and-still-be-healthy/

 

I awasn't talking about overweight women I was refering to obese women. Obesity as defined by the AMA as 35lbs overweight and hell I'm willing to give a little leeway on that because some chicks 5'9 and 200 lbs look amazing but when we're talking 70lbs and more overweight seems to be a real issue.

 

This is what you said MR.F:

My point was if you see bm who achieve a certain amount of wealth that date interracially you rarely if ever see them with overweight white asian latin or whatever.
Only when the men don't have much do you see their "preference" as overweight women. I'm not saying this is an absolute but it's something I've observed.

That statement has nothing to do with the NYT article, or about the risks of being obese. That statement has no basis in fact other than your own anecdotal observation. My anecdotal obeservation and preferences say otherwise. But neither of them have any validity since neither of them are anything other than "our experience." There are a lot of variables here, for example, it might very well be a variable of profession and not wealth etc. too for such statements to ever hold water.

 

Fair enough.

Ladies take note that he made his point with logic. You can't fight logic.

 

Thanks F. As for the ladies and logic, i think you might be confusing matters a little; i think, in many ways, what you said (as you pointed out in your first post) might have been hurtful. I.e, the ladies on here are white women who love black men, and from what i can tell from my short time here, as diverse as the black men on here. I am sure it would have been hard for me to not have some emotional involvement, for example, if someone had said "Black men who date white women are traitors to their race," or some such. A bit of kindness always helps; keep being real as you are too!