I've never known a black man that dated big ugly white women and didn't ALSO date big ugly black women. I call BS on the stereotype that BM down grade when they date WW. What I see with my two eyes is they date the same looking women in all races. I do think BM date more big (not ugly honestly I think more white men have ugly women) women than white men. But this has nothing to do with IR's. I see alot more black men dating big black women than I see white men dating big white women. So where is her reason for that? Why do more BM and LM like big women in their own race than WM and AM like big women in their own race? I think one reason BM marry more big women than white men is b/c black men are more likely to have sex with big women (going into for a piece of ass) and when you get to know people sometimes you develop feelings for them based the person they are not their outer appearance. I for one fell for a guy I thought was ugly b/c I was sweet enough to just sit and talk to him even though I wasn't attracted to him and he became attractive to me. As far as her opinions go on women I do not agree. Women are the least picky when it comes to picking a man. Most married women will not have googly eyes for men whom have bodies like their unfit husbands. As women although a handsome appearance is great it's not really what we set out for. We are looking for someone we find attractive when is entirely different then looking for someone we find hot. Overweight men are attractive in many women's eyes. Women first of all are mostly looking for commitment NOT money although some are. A woman naturally wants a man who has potential as being a life partner. Looks change over time and while are great if you got them but not so important in the relationship as long as looking at him doesn't make you wanna barf. Women are also much more accepting to our men gaining weight in marriage.
Well, the financial inequalities in this country have got to get fixed. I remember reading that our home ownership levels were uneven, compared to whites. Just under 50% of blacks have homes registered in their name, while 75% of whites have that same thing, which is complete home ownership. There are also disparities with median income, where white men make more money on the job than black men. I co-sign with your words, RS. Good to see that you are speaking out against this and explaining it more logically and with bi-partisanship.
They're nothing new, mike. It's always been that way, and the wealth gap has been expanding disproportionally to where we're no longer closing in on such things. There's a much needed revamping of the psychological system which is a start. But it's mere theory through social engineering.
Me and one of my friends was recently was talking about this and one of the major factors why we like bm more than wm. BM tend to be more up front and honest about what he wants from you where as wm will talk to a woman he wants for booty call in the same way he talks to a woman he was LT. That's been our experience anyway.
I'm aware. But basically, if you have more money, you have greater opportunity. If you have less/not enough for daily management, you have lower opportunities and a higher possibility of not being able to pay your bills, bankruptcy or getting in debt from college.
is that why people (WW) scream frustration about the confusion in relationships. have you met WW that want to date BM but were shy about it
i agree with bm being more upfront, also with bm in my exp they let you know they want you, wm with me have been too nervous to approach me, or come with some stupid ass chat up lines
yeah, if you have different opinions then you are a troll. it must be stated that we have to be cognizant of trolls but damn
No you don't Mike. It's one thing to respect another person's opinion, but it is quite another to co-sign. You frequently co-sign on stuff for the sake of gathering people to "your side" of things as if that adds cheese to your argument on that particular thread. You know damn well you don't agree with this.. Don't get me wrong. I like Regina a lot and enjoy reading her posts. But I totally disagree her on with this comment...respectfully. There is no need to brown nose Mike. Regina is not the type to co-sign with you in return if she really disagrees with you. So stop it with your "I co-sign" games.
Why do you think people get banned? They've had different opinions too. This message is hidden because OpenHeart is on your ignore list. Whatever came out of there, I didn't read it. Gotta take a break from OH! :smt006
well chalk that up with those dating gurus like "mystery". he had a show trying to make guys into pick up artist on VH1. It was weak horrible
Yeah it can be very confusing. My friend prefers BM but is currently dating a WM and he has her so lost and confused about what their relationship is it ain't funny. They agreed not see other people. He talks as if they are together and when his son asked if she was his girlfriend he said yes. But then a mutual friend asked him if they were in a relationship he said no. WTF. But dude want even kiss her. I think she needs to move on. I don't know about shy but I've meet females that were attracted to BM but were "worried" about what other people would think.
LOL The quickest thing for me to say at the very least is "co-sign". I don't need an "army" behind me anyway.
Stereotypes usually come from some where. There is typically truth in them (meaning a large group of people fit the stereotype) although I do believe some people see what they want to see and not the truth. But in this case this has been our reality.
