[YOUTUBE]http://youtu.be/sYY3vDnHr3A?hd=1[/YOUTUBE] Discuss, what do you guys think? Since this is coming from a lady, does that validate the belief? Edit: I still have trouble posting youtube videos here for some reason so here is the link. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sYY3vDnHr3A&feature=digest
I like my chocolate sweet...not bittersweet. I am not drawn to irresponsibility or games or immaturity or whorishness. Don't need a bad boy don't want one.
You look like a studious woman,......... I don't think this philosophy ideally applies to you and a number of other pragmatic women on this forum......but after waffling back and forth with this one for some time, I have to come down on the side of babybro's piece.......It has some validity..........Large numbers of women are attracted to the confidence and nerve of bad-boys..........
I couldn't care less what women want, lol. I'm proud to be a nice guy, take it or leave it I ain't going out of my way to change for no woman.
This is why I don't let them cry on my shoulder when "bad boy" breaks their heart. They should have known better.
That was some corny ass shit I just watched!!! What you have is a bunch of lame dudes that are naturally soft perpetrating like they are bad. If you are a nice dude then remain that way but if you are a natural born asshole then change if you want to.But don't be surprised when the validation or merit doesn't come your way because you say "you are a bad boy". Real bad boys are silent and don't have to announce it.
Which is why I stopped looking for female friends a long time ago, mine are very limited. Feels good to no longer be someone's shoulder to cry on, while they never care about my issues.
I do have friends who seems drawn to the bad boy, time and time again. I cant stand it. When I was in my teens, it seemed fun - the cool guys - it got real boring real fast. I like sense, stability, kindness and reliability. Someone that is straight and honest - regardless of what the truth is - and this the facts... I "just don't say that" as I'm sure someone will say - I live by that. Love straight shooters, I am one, good and bad. But I like straight shooters that will be your team mate and have integrity first and foremost.
very true, i went out with one when i was very young in high school, and that was it after that, i see so many girls going on about how cool these bad boys are, then next they are streaming full of tears and its every other mans fault i like a guy that has a brain, dosent dress like a hobo, and speak like a fuckwit, my bf was allways deemed to be weak and boring just because he knew how to dress and speak, and i remember when me and him started dating these same type of guys ones were like how is HE dating her? and some of these girls would pass up a man who has his shit together, for a guy who wants to use girls as a pump and dump
That shit sounds like some young dumb bubbleheaded none sense. I didn't even listen to the entire thing. Depending on what your looking for I guess it may hold some truth like if you just want to hook up with someone and that's it fine. But anyone with any self esteem doesn't want or need this horseshit for their life to be exciting. I'm a grown ass man I need a WOMAN not a little girl who hasn't figured herself out yet. And for the all the "nice" guys out there why would you even care about a lame chick like that, all she's good for is a fuck and not much else. Girls like that only bring a dude down.
Sadly fan, the woman looks to be older tan me. More proof that age and maturity don't go hand in hand. I got bored with the vidoe about 27 seconds in.
You don't have to be young to be young minded sweetheart. That chick is proof of that. That's a woman who hasn't grown up yet.
all i am going to say to this is be careful of the wolf in sheep's clothing...some men are very good at talking the big talk about what a nice guy they are and how they detest bad boys getting women... a nice guy is just that and he won't have to tell you he is a nice guy...you will recognize it in his actions...he won't feel the need to point out the bad boys in order to eliminate them as competition... trust me if a man is over the top trying to hard to be charming then that is a red flag...he is more than likely charming the panties off of several women:smt005
I think she was pretty articulate. She clarified her position, and I think she is right. All she says is women prefer a good man with an edge. But in the absence of that they would rather go with someone that gives them an illusion of security than someone that is a walk-over. Also things do change as they grow older when, I think, they have more confidence and self fulfilled and they don't necessarily need this kind of illusion anymore. I think this applies to both sexes.
Nice guys, for the most part, do not become much more desirable until they reach a lot of financial benefits, if they go into certain professions. It takes years realizing the bad boy has no future, thus many nice guys get left out in the cold. I am glad I toughened up, interestingly enough many women resented me for it. A few said I was becoming arrogant, as if I had no right to be the way I became, oh well.
