It seems that many people are negative and just plain miserible. Are you more positive or negative overall?
I try to be pragmatic and a realist, without a bias in either direction. That doesn't always work, but I give it the old college try.
It really depends on the situation and my mood. But mostly I'd say I'm positive. There are certain things it's hard to be positive about though.
I'm a hope for the best but be prepared for the worst guy. However, I prefer to date positive women since they light up my rainy days.
I positive most of the time.I find that I have very little patience for meaness, whining and negetivity.
I always look on the positive side of things, but I usually try to convince people to look on the negative side.:smt102
Sometimes I go back between optimistic,realistic and pessimistic and dependent on my mood end up leaning more towards either one. lol I'm working on being more positive.
Nice thought. Now, I would say I am mostly a positive person. However, it took me some time to grow up and into it. My Dad used to remind me not to carry the weight of the world on my shoulders. I can tend to upset about some of the sorry states some parts of the world are in and as a younger person was quite interested in the 'roll of the dice' idea..if I was to be honest and can say so without being flamed it was like your typical white class guilt. My parents came here dirt poor as all fuck as refugees and worked so hard, I always felt like I wasn't appreciating enough of what I had.I could get very cynical . But over time I learnt just to put my head down, work out, change what I can change, and not stress about what I can't. Little things I don't give a shit about mostly.. I don't mind waiting in a line, if the waiter (server) to you guys fucks up my order..someone cutting in front of me in traffic, etc etc. I have struggled with my moods in the past and learnt not to sweat the small stuff! My job is stressful as fuck at times but I try just to let it wash over me like I'm not even there and appreciate the fact that I have it. It probably impacted my advancement when I was commercial because I won't bill ridiculous hours but I didn't care and am much happier now working less for less for something I believe in more!
You don't know lol... On one hand I would like to see everyone happy so I try my best to be helpful and cheerful to strangers throughout the day... On the other hand I take great enjoyment out of being cruel to others. I shouldn't be alive.
I"m outwardly negative, with a positive center. It takes a while to get to know me. For example I tell people I'm shy as hell, no one gets it until they get to know me. Ymra? Shy? How there hell does a shy dude have a Youtube show.. ...but its true, I'm very shy. I'm also have a lot more sunny disposition than many would think. My bullshit meter is very sharp however, and I am and always have been direct and to the point.
