Who knew it would be this hard. (real talk) I'm not mean........I just say what I want to say. I like to call it FREEDOM!
lol...you can't be surprised at the effort and discipline it must take for you to be civil and kind to people
Ymra, don't play stupid in an effort to make me look that way or I'll have to assume you're not playin' in the first place. Whether you finished the thought or not we all know you were asking something and we all know what that something was or would have been. You misunderstood me and as a result of this misunderstanding you insulted my appearance and intelligence. I did not "ask for it" at all. Grow up.
you said "ask me the same thing" and I'm asking what were you asking? If you say someone looks like "A" inevitably someone is going to look at your looks at as well, especially is you say something negative. Its really very simple and should not be that hard for you to understand. You judge.........be prepared to be judged. In short............you asked for it, and you go it. I understood you completely. Grow up? Well a grown up would have said something to the affect. "Hey Ymra, what I said came out wrong, I didn't mean it as.....(blank)... ...so with that regards, perhaps we both need to grow up. ....yall really are making it hard for me huh?
You were asking me how someone who looks like me can can judge the attractiveness of those women. And I told you in the Candace thread: But you conveniently ignored me. I was judging the look in their eyes (or lack of it) and the expressions on their faces not conveying anything (and a bunch of other people agree). It didn't come out wrong, you took it wrong. I'm not going to apologize for your mistake in grasping what I was saying. Again: You were the first one to judge another's attractiveness, as well as another's intelligence, so what you are saying to me (about judging others and being prepared to be judged back) is exactly what you did before anyone else had done it. If you're really so about "an eye for an eye" here is a picture I took of me with a webcam a few months ago http://i430.photobucket.com/albums/qq22/BrittyLM24/You/l.jpg so you can judge the expression on my face like I did with the women in your pictures. Then things would be fair. Let's see if you can do that. Another challenge. Personally, most often, I enjoy you and your humor as well and while you're no Morris Chestnut, heh, I don't think you're unattractive. I was just being immature. .... Sorry. Maybe, but I think you need to grow up more, LoL I'm really not trying to. Your challenge just wasn't very good timing.
Really Ymra, keep it up. As a senior NCO, you ARE disiplined already. This is just a different way of showing it called DIPLOMACY. I wanted to smack the ever living shit out of and go OFF on a co-worker today. Instead, I chose to not respond to her email and will ride it out. Her comment was uncalled for, but long term, I have to work with the woman, so it is not worth getting into a big fucking bruhaha over a snide comment, I have my big girl pants on an can take it
I'm sure that diplomacy is just as necessary, if not more so, in the army as in other parts of society. It's difficult to maintain civility in our lives without it. The fact that we take advantage in certain settings and decide against using diplomacy doesn't mean that we don't make that choice selectively and consciously, regardless of proclamations to the contrary?
I would enjoy nibbling FG [insert random body part] I was going to bite your tongue like a Vampire ha!
