We have passed that point already. This topic is no longer only important for me. It is now about the specific factors that leads to friendships with wanted white women. Black boys/men need to start somewhere to achieve this sort of ideals.
To some men a white wife is not a goal. Some women only like men of a certain color. And do nor forget, for some men the only women who find them attractive are white women.
Alright - I'm holding you to it. I have witnesses, and I have it in writing just in case you forget. :smt112
Saint's got a point, Tarshi. But then again.... Dude, confidence is of prime importance. Those guys you posted are famous in some way or they have a good deal of money. But in the end, it's all about what a chick is like on the inside. Hell, I don't know how to approach very well myself, but I go for it from time to time. Go for the women you know you can get and start from there. Achieve ideals solely to get one specific kind of woman, based on race? Damn, man. :smt099
Well, you seem to be focusing too much on looks. It's cool to consider to talk to someone you think is attractive, but just to talk to a woman because she's drop dead hot will probably be annoying to her. Personality is more important than looks. If she has no sense of humor, you won't connect. If she has mental problems, she'll make your life a living nightmare. Those things are way more important. Going after a woman who has a balance of looks, her own personality, and some sort of vibe/connection between you two is better. 1. It appears to be shallow 2. It suggests a high level of insecurity. 3. Ideals that are supposed to be obtained are usually lofty, and beyond the scope of dating women man. Let's talk about ideals like having a good education, a career that you love, having people around you who are positive and like-minded in your interests. In other words: :smt021 Stop working so hard to get women! And validate yourSELF by doing the things you love, having a job, obtaining shit for your future, living your life, etc.
Women are always concerned with their appearance and not only the white ones. For that reason it is our duty to get in touch with gorgeous(white)women. Self-confidence begins with approaching beautiful(white) women we do not know yet. Intuition and luck are major factors in obtaining success. That is why most(black) men are not happy if pretty (white) women do not want them, but we always keep trying whatever it takes. A magnet always attracts ,otherwise it would not be a magnet. The above sentence is also true for the effect of beautiful (white) women on men. A lot of black men will therefore never give up. This forum is named White Women Black Men after all.
First, I'll say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder... What you might consider gorgeous or beautiful another might find average or unattractive. Even more, you might peel back that exterior facade and find an ogre underneath. Several responses have tried to suggest that's it' not all about looks. You should take heed and rethink what you currently hold to be true. I believe that character and chemistry play greater roles than superficial things like looks. I'd also caution you about your persistence... If a woman if not interested for whatever reason, no will still mean NO and you run the risk of developing a reputation of being a pest, of being creepy, or worse... Self-confidence is aptly titled because it's about the self, the "I", the "Me".... It doesn't begin with approaching anyone but the person who stares back at you when you look in the mirror. How you view yourself and know yourself will speak volumes, even in a crowded room. That is why most(black) men are not happy if pretty (white) women do not want them, but we always keep trying whatever it takes. I won't even beat up this erroneous statement... I'll assume you took a poll to come up with the not happy theory.... Slow your roll and lighten up... Your choice of a mate will be something that is mutually agreed upon by two of you. She will let you know if she's interested. It may not be the neon sign advertising "Vacancy", but you'll catch the signs if you are tuned in... Oh, and one last thing... magnets only attract ferro(iron)magnetic objects and those objects need to be within the proximity of the magnetic field before the magic can begin to work. That's that character and chemistry in humans...
The term attraction goes far beyond appearance. Appearance is however the first thing people notice. Character is definitely important, but from the outside this can not be observed. A lot of men are kind, loving, reliable and even intelligent. Many of these men have nevertheless no friendship with(pretty)women. There are probably other qualities expected of men to be eligible for (beautiful) women. I think Reese Witherspoon looks good. Other men will disagree with his. For me that is no problem. Only men with self-confidence (courage) do approach her. She will never let me know if she is interested. Not all men do succeed to win her love. The winner takes it all. No time for losers. It is all in the game. Reese Witherspoon is of course just an example in this debate.
