Hi im Julie... ive been dating black men for about three years. My family hates that I do this but I just think that it is me. I find black men to be so masculine.... sweet.....strong.

 

Well welcome aboard to the forums! We're all here to support you and give you the needed arm and attention!

How are you?

 

thank you.

I am really good tonite... feeling free.... for the first time.

 

OK, all seriousness... tell us your story, Julie.

Age? Location? Are you single? In a relationship? What draws you to BM? Do you exclusively date BM? What do you do for fun? What's your favorite color? What kind of music do you like?

 

Thank you.

I'm 31 yrs old houston tx. I have been dating black men on and off for about three years. More and more I have been seeing black men and not going out with white men. I find that black men are so much more masculine and, yes... seriouisly... larger (Can i say that on here?)

I think that.. it really turns me on when I'm with a black man... esp a really dark man and he is showing me off. Lately I have found that I want him to tell me how to dress... how to act.... what kind of makeup.

 

I see. You're into the Dom/sub lifestyle. Is that just with BM, or has that always been the case?

What was it three years ago that suddenly made you decide to start dating BM?

 

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I'm divorced. I was married to a white man and I didn't or wasn't happy. I have a girl friend that is dating a black guy. She sort of set me up with one of his friends.

I'm over thirty and I guess my biological clock is ticking. I've been thinking about that a lot lately.

 

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I'm not that familiar with the dom sub thing... I mean I've heard of it. My husband wanted to start having babies and I just couldn't see doing that with him.

I started seeing black men....after I left him and got an apartment with a gf.

Please tell me when I step out of line on here.

 

What street do you work on again? lol

 

Where I work

Downtown Houston on Travis.

 

Do cops patrol that area?






just messing with ya, welcome!

 

Where I work

I work in downtown Houston on Travis.

 

Cops.

Yes I guess they do. It's right downtown.

 

I guess

I'm really kind of a blonde. Sometimes I don't get jokes until they are explained to me.

 

lol, :smt043

So you been dating this BM since your divorce?

 

I've dated

Several black men. And I saw a couple of white men. But lately i'm just not interested in them.

Black men are funny. But they sometimes have jokes I don't understand.

 

like what jokes?

 

that had me roar with laughter db...!!!!

 

They're always telling jokes

About stupid blondes and I'm not really even a blonde. They're even worse than white guys about wanting to watch sports... football, basketball, I used to be kind of a NY Rangers Hockey fan but they never want to watch that.