Bliss
Well-Known Member
I never implied that all rich men were dicks and poor men were great. In fact, in my experiences with my 2 marriages, the bigger dick was the guy who made a lot less money.
But you cannot deny that when someone makes a lot of money they are driven to do so. Being driven, in theory, is not a bad quality, but in reality, it means long nights at the office, traveling across the country/world for jobs, bringing the stress of the job home with you, checking work emails at midnight.
Someone who makes that kind of money rarely has time to be fully there when he/she is with their significant other. You have to make sacrifices in your personal life if you want to succeed in your professional life. You have to. That's how the world works.
True, but by the same token, a poor man puts in a lot of hours also to make ends meet, no? Or maybe he works a manual job and he's too tired when he gets home to give the wife and kids his attention. Or maybe he likes to unwind at the local watering hole for hours, creating passive-agressive stress at home. It goes both ways. In fact, money problems can even make a person become bitter or resentful - there are a myriad of negative domino effects that can occur as a result.
My point is, finding that a man who makes a great living as having an attractive quality is nothing to be ashamed of, nor does it necessarily mean the woman is then a whore or gold-digger as a result - or even assume that she has no money of her own.
By the same token, on quite a few occasions I've heard men who work hard for what his money buys him, state he does it to eventually share it with his future woman. Just another form of his symbolic peacock feathering.