You know, when I read this (and I've read it a thousand times from you and never given it much thought) my mind wandered to a guy that I work with... He's buff, he obviously spends a lot of time working out AND he has a very high paying job with a nice city high-rise apartment. But he's pretty awkward with the ladies and girls don't respond so well to him because of his approach. (My girlfriend and I have both experienced this first hand...) So while those things might go a long way, they're not necessarily guaranteeing success.
Exactly Whikle. Looking good and supporting yourself doesn't make up for a lack of personality and humour. I've been hit on by successful, built, educated attractive men but their mannerisms/personality were such a turn off, I couldn't consider anything past the first date.
Ladies you guys are right its not a guarantee but it does help a lot. Its way better than the advice I normally hear women tell men. Be yourself, have confidence. If who you are isn't someone you're confident then you have little to no chance of attracting who you want. While I understand there are guys who are successful and in shape without personalities would you disagree that being success and in shape is a very good start?
Sure, it's definitely a good start. But I will always be more inclined to date the guy whose persona, attitude and approach I find attractive, even if he's not traditionally good looking. And I can say with confidence that I will never date a guy whose persona, attitude and approach suck, just because he's got the body of an adonis or has a lot of money. Now to find a man with the lot... no woman would deny that that's ideal
And that's my whole point. Be ideal, be the best you possible to attract what you want. You owe to yourself. We can all find" someone" but if its not the right someone what's the point? Being the best you makes that task all the more easier. Very few ladies can resist charm (me lol) add a six pack and a nice place who the hell would even dare look else where. Feel me lol
Bolded is very true, and in the same vein, no one is ever going to be ideal for everyone, but they'll definitely be ideal for someone. And that's why there's no easy answer to the original question!
The man who invented it doesn't want it. The man who bought it doesn't need it. The man who needs it doesn't know it. What is it?
You're a bit random, Tarshi Bear. But I loves ya. Goodnight :smt008 (I was gonna put the kissing on the cheek one, but thought of the last time we hung out and figured this one will do )
Very true but in the context of this thread for these guys to get the attention they want from the women they are attracted to nothing beats a healthy body and little cash fueled confidence. Like I said if it works why not try it.
lol...i read what you wrote, then had to reread it a couple more times to try and work out what you were saying (i'm exhausted), and the first thing that popped into my mind was 'riddle me this', so i thought that i'd post a riddle. again, i'm exhausted. this packing, moving, working & raising 2 kids thing is killing me & im still quite breathless after my illness as well:smt101 and i can't believe you've got photographic evidence of what happened last time we hung out...bloody hilarious
You have better photographic evidence than I do! I still remember posting them on the forum, screaming when we saw how big they were, and deleting the post immediately Ahhhh, we laughed so much that weekend. Good times!
brilliant weekend. and man were those photo's hideous...!!! can't believe we even posted them for the few seconds that they were up
i just thought that before when we started to speak about the pics. i've deleted them off the phone and they're on the lovebox, but i spoke to my computer geniuses and they've fixed the ol girl & she's better than ever, so i'll email them tomorro night
