Mental Attraction

I think you just more or less quoted my friend John's "Theory of Beautiful People".

 

That's like, so true 'n' stuff. Cause hot women like me don't need a "personality". Oh yeah...I know you're jealous. *flicks her hair like she means it* Suck it, bitches!

 

That is very true. The physical features have a minor effect when engaging in sexual intercourse. But the feeling of it shouldn't have to be a mini-cart racing in quicksand.

Hahahaahhahaha! Russian roulette.

 

The thread have end up put down the men and women that look good and
because they look good have no personalities and are good at nothing

 

No it hasn't. If we did that we'd be insulting ourselves, on account of the fact that we're all hotter than lava. Oh yeah, you know it's true.

 

what i said not that bother me, as i dont look good ...

ok i have no personality either but thats because i dont care to have one am tired as it is ..

 

I don't believe that is true of all people, but there is some truth to that about people who are looks-obsessed.

 

I think sexual intellect and looks are independent, and not corollated.

 

I don't mean to imply that they are genetically linked, but I'm willing to bet that there is a strong relationship between the likelihood that a person puts all of their focus on the physical and superficial and the likelihood that they have an underdeveloped intellect and personality. Not a certainty, but maybe a strong correlation.

 

All things considered, sexy is more an attitude than a look, imo. Physical attractiveness does not automatically equal sexy and vice versa.

 

Completely agree!

 

How many of you have actually been with beautiful women?
I hate to burst a lot of your bubbles but unless an 8 has the personality of an arm chair her looks will make her more sexy to me then an 5 with a 10 personality. The reason why is because the 5 wouldn't be able to hold my interest long enough to find out how great she is personality wise. This might be shallow but I NEED a woman to be hot to be into her. Looks may be temporary and personality is forever but the two aren't mutually exclusive. There are hot women with great personalities. A lot of them are former fat girls but hey you gotta start somewhere lol. JK:smt118

 

correct.To be sexy is a combination of several features. A charming,self-confident, empathic,humorous man is sexy. His physical attractiveness is important, but I think it has to be average only.

A handsome man is interesting to look at, but it wouldn't be interesting enough to me to have a ONS with him.

 

I have been with gorgeous men, but after my marriage I only chose hot men that were smart in some way. I have never been with an ordinary man or an ugly man and I'm certainly not going to start now, because I don't deserve that - I'm a pretty woman and good-looking guys are attracted to me.

Sad, because you are not a dime piece yourself. Any 8 that would get with you WOULD have to have the personality AND intellect of an armchair because you are not the prime specimen of desirable black men. That's a fact. I look over men like you every day and yawn with boredom - you THINK you can keep up with me in terms of intellect, but you're wrong. You THINK you deserve a dime piece, yet again, you kid yourself. I will not go with a black man or ANY man unless he is genetically superior (plus/minus weight - doesn't make a huge difference to me - it matters on how he's built). His intellect will not be insulted by my superior smarts, so he will not have to put me down - he will praise me, and meet me toe to toe. Anyone who degrades me is "less than", physically and intellectually, and that's a fact.

 

Scarlett Johansson is the prime example of a desirable white woman do you think you come ANYWHERE near her? I think you should fire your shrink he is either blind or is a bloody liar. Your avatar is an artistic impression of you and that avatar is not the reflection of a woman who will turn heads when she is walking on the street. And we all remember the mom jeans pic and it was not flattering.

 

I don't wear my jeans tight to the skin but I still get compliments every day. Thanks.

I thought I had hidden my avatar - if so (that you can see it), that was my own charcoal representation of my self recently.

Sorry I don't wear Jeggings or leggings on the street. :smt081

 

The last girl I was seeing was at first sight a 7/10 for looks, after walking her home the same night she had gone up to an 8.5. 6 weeks later she had flown up to a 15/10. The reason why she easily exceeded the "out of 10" rating was her personality. She became more physically attractive due to her inner beauty.

 

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What one person finds attractive is not necessarily what another finds attractive. Which is why we sometimes look at couples and think "Good gods! Why is SHE with HIM?!" or "...Why is HE with HER?!".

Just saying.