Mental Attraction

Quiet magic happens everyday dammit.

 

Co-sign

 

Oh boy you too? Smh lol

 

I cannot say, how many playmates are with unattractive, medium attractive, rich or poor man. But, it's an example and I am sure all of us have seen ourselves many times that a couple is together and outsiders don't get it-why? A female athlet, young is married to an old man, she is rich, not him.
Another female celebrity is married to a normal business man, not attractive, not rich, she paid his debths about some million Euro. There are several examples nowadays..

The question is more, how do people appreciate,respect other people...we shouldn't make the mistake to assume that a woman's value is her body size or the mans' value depends on his bank account. I know dozens of women that helped their men out of a financial crisis. I know a lot of people that are in a relationship and he or she is more attractive, taller or more intelligent than the other. We are all human beings, with an intellect, emotions and what is the most important I think- understanding and empathy.

There are people outside that cannot understand why is a ww with a bm. They are ignorant, idiotic and without respect of a human being. I am against that, but the same objectivity and respect I want to have - I also have to give.

 

Co-sign. Christine - you're a class act.

 

With the love defies all logic part, yeah.

Most people ask me what the hell I've seen in guys I've been with... but at the time they were the most attractive person to me. Even if they were a 2 on a scale going to 10, they were a 10 in my eyes for the way they treated me and actually cared about me.

This is compared to guys that could be a 10 and interested in me, because then it's usually based on sex. Girls at Gallaudet would drool over a football player that got on some all-American team, he really was a 10. As soon as I tried started talking to him... EVERYTHING was about him, or sports. If the topic changed to anything else, he couldn't hold his weight.

I'd rather the "2" that treated me right and could have fun with, rather than fuck the "10". It didn't matter how well recognized the "10" is on campus, or that he already had some job on Capitol Hill... he's still as dull as a bag of rocks to me

The same way there were two guys that would rank the same on a scale for looks... could talk to both easily enough. One worked for the government and had serious cash, owed no money and the other only had HOPE of finding a job (and a student loan as well)... I picked the one without the job, just because I could connect to him on more levels, money didn't make a difference.

 

Damn you're giving me a little hope Nicole. Pretty and insightful. I might move to DC just for you. You''ve been notified

 

And you are a trash act. Christine is trying to make a point that unattractive people can be with attractive and not be rich. You on the other hand say you have never dated ugly guys and wont start now so if she is class then you are....

 

oh shit haha

 

Not worth the move But thanks

 

Appiah, what in the hell is wrong with you?

 

Thanks anyway for positive repping me and insulting me that's a new one.

 

I assure you, that was an accident. I have yet to figure out why you have such strong feelings of anger toward me - why would you care about my dating preferences or anything about me whatsoever?

 

With all your intelligence you couldn't figure out positive and negative rep? Would you have added your name if you had neg repped or been anonymous? And for your information i don't care about you at all and probably wont wish you well if you were sick so so don't get it twisted. I was just calling out your bullshit that's all and you seem to think anybody who does that is interested in you in some way and that is sad. You call people ugly and fat cows so why be mad if in my opinion you are not the beautiful woman you claim to be.

 

What part of the word "accident" do you not understand? I always sign my name to reps no matter what kind.

FYI, coincidentally, Appiah, I AM sick and am on my way to the doctor right now. Thanks for not wishing me well.

I can't believe you are still obsessing over my little affair with that wrestler.
This is some sort of twisted African ideology that women have to bow down and accept whatever is offered to them. It bothers you that I have standards and try to maintain a positive self image. I will also refuse a man if I feel like he is substandard or if his decisions are substandard. If I were in Ghana, I'm sure you would do everything in your power to make me feel like a worthless piece of shit, but thankfully, I am HERE in America and you are not KING here. :smt020

 

Certain accidents are made by retards and this was one.

 

I am going to the doctor now. Have fun wallowing in your spitefulness and bitterness.

 

^^^ such flirts! Hope you got a cootie shot.

 

Seems like every girl I'm attracted to is mental.

 

like attracts like