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I'm so loving the toilet and shower part...I can imagine the loud knocks, if not the barge-ins...'Mu-um!!"

 

Hell yeah.

 

Exactly.

 

Perfect way to start my day would be to wake up, but then snuggle with someone till it becomes 'fun', or fall asleep again. Either way, I'm a snuggle-bug and it'd be bliss

That, or fall asleep at night, then wake up with the morning light, knowing that nothing important has to be done that day.... definitely not stressing at all!


In reality, my morning starts far too early for someone with no morning classes and supposedly nothing to do with the morning hours... I wake up, snuggle my pillow, hit snooze a few times, get breakfast then think, "What did I NOT do yesterday that's due today and needs to be finished before 2"

 

Sounds like nirvana. Want to be you.

 

I love the way you think girl.:smt001

 

Someone's rocking a killer Florida Room!

 

I know THAT feeling. Would look forward to morning though if I was waking up in such a great room x

 

lol...i'm not surprised. i'm looking back with rose coloured glasses now at the days when i'd be woken 3 times a need for a feed

oh kuni, if only they were polite enough to knock before entering. they're usually running in to get away from the other or because something is horribly unfair

jealous much

 

I stand by my answer, especially the harass the man for lovin bit. :smt026

 

Reading my emails from overnight from this place is definitely NOT the way I like to start my day any more. :smt087

 

Agreed. We need our days to start like this:

 

Oh, Lawd have mercy, YES!!!! :smt026

 

Is it the racial stuff?

 

In part. It's the lashing out, the bashing, the negativity. I'm all for healthy debate, even passionate debate. I've said this before. But I've seen too often that one can't ask what they believe is an innocent question - and by innocent, I mean it's not intended to spark emotions - because they simply want to understand something and the thread becomes all-out war with more bashing, name calling, presumptions and assumptions. There's nothing wrong with being angry about injustice or frustrated about what seems like a hopeless situation. But the way that anger and frustration is expressed often just crosses the line.

There are many times I read through these threads following dicussions (arguments, really) and I would like to ask a question from an observer's point of view, and I refrain because it will be mocked, considered suspect, someone will assume the wrong thing and before I know it, I'm embroiled in something hateful and bitter and I just wanted clarification on something!!!! Particularly in threads where the men are going at it.

 

Well I can honestly say you can take me out of that equation because I have refrained from that type of dialogue all together. Too much on my plate to waste that time and I have an awesome girl in my life so I'm chillin. Best I've felt in awhile.

 

One thing that is being taken away, by the lack of respect, is that people truly come here to learn and understand. When you can't ask "stupid" questions it takes away. Like I said there used to be good dialogue. If you look in the what is your story most people say I came here because I was curious about IR or wanted to know ...blah blah. Most people don't come looking for romance. They come for answers and understanding. Sometimes you ask things wrong because of lack of experience, the enviroment you were raised, or the language barrier or whatever, not because you have hatred in your heart.

And my answer is still this to the thread question.

 

Exactly. Thank you, Jordie, for making that point.

 

You missed a step in there. Between sleeping and eating.....But I'll let someone else post that picture!!!

 

That goes without saying. :smt025 Morning is one of my favorite times......just slightly ahead of midmorning, afternoon, evening......late night......