Think most women in general view other women as competition and sometimes a threat. Constantly comparing themselves in some fashion to other women, regardless of their color. Jealousy and envy are some of the most ugly traits.
Hey! You hurt Luke's feelings! *hugs Luke* Imaginary/ invisible boyfriends is where it's at! At least I know no other woman's gonna go after him
It depends on the [black] girl. Some don't care, and others...well, they tend to either act like sniveling hyenas or would outright bitch about your preferences.
The man, if criticized, is so because the BW is angry that he chose a WW over a BW. She's then jealous of the WW, the object of his attraction.
Sorry you misunderstood, I can't relate. Never associated myself with other women who disliked another woman merely off skin pigmentation.
You dont have to associate with them to get the hatw homie. Had a bw at walmart tell me I should stop wasting my time with white girls and find a good black girl to share my life with. A total stranger really felt the need to say this to me. Theres a large number of bw who have a problem with black men dating ww thats no secret.
Earlier this week (Monday), a dude I know who works at the university sandbar lounge (and yes it serves alcohol to students), he actually saw me with my buddy while we were ordering some food together and he pulled me to the side and wanted to know if I like black girls. I gave a resounding yes, and that was about it. He's not malicious or anything. He just noticed that each time he saw me, I was with a [white] girl. He likes all women and don't discriminate, but he does prefer black women though. He and I are really cool together. And just this Wednesday, two girls I know, both whom are black, saw me leaving my friend's dorm room late at night and we chatted a bit. And they asked me if the girl I was with was white or black, and I just said white and they nodded. I guess in the back of their heads, since they see me with white women all the time, they get the impression that I'm not attracted to black women, which is the overall issue: perception and far too much focused on this or that scenarios. Why not consider the option that the individuals have preferences, but are open to all kinds of people regardless of who they are?
Im betting on that she was about 40 years old that is too much like logical. in both cases people are pushing their insecurities on you. the reason I say about forty because she was probably a bw with insecurities and became stank and now she is a hater. they mask their insecurities with hating.
Because that would be far too easy in a society where people love playing the victim. People want to be able to blame someone for what they don't have in life.
I never gotten any insecurities from them...at least from my gut feelings. That's a bit perplexing. I'm just one guy out of a vast pool of people whom they can connect with. To be honest, one of the black girls I know could very well be lesbian, so I don't see how she would really care. Then again, I do remember a poster on here bringing up something with a lesbian interracial couple pissed at a black man for not dating a black woman. :idea:
Reminds me of the time I was a waiter at an after party; These BW started to try and freak dance with me. I had to explain to them that I was working and I could get in trouble if I was participating in the events, but they accused me of being a liar and said "I bet if I was white you'd be all over me!" I just rolled my eyes and went on.
