If a person advise that they dont date or marry IR, I'm cool with that. I will try to throw in their face nor do I hide it. I will respect their choice and they dont have to like my choice but they will respect my choice and the woman that I am with.
I dont' give a fuck in general.... but does it bother me when women date everyone but black men acting like we are scum.
My ex's cousin told me that he does not date white women as they does not find us attractive to him in the physical sense. I was not offended.
I can appreciate that sort of honesty. As long as there's no negativity about my preferences, I'll be alright. Everyone is certainly entitled to their own likes/dislikes.
In many obvious ways it's a wiser choice than dating interracially or interculturally. We may be open-minded, but the world is not. No reason to wear it on your sleeve though, which is what a lot of people are doing when they declare they don't date interracially. Depends on why they're saying it. Did someone ask them? Or are they coming up to us who do our own thing and saying it with a sneer and judgementalism?
I couldn't care less. What people do in their own lives is their own business. They can date, or not date, whom ever they choose.
Don't really care. Only time it sucks if I have a friend that wants to go to a black club and I want to go to a white club
I always find that shit suspect. Anyone who has to announce it is saying a lot more than they don't date outside their "race" Secondly I find people like that to be annoyingly simple minded. To say you don't find anyone attractive in a particular "race" is ridiculous. I don't seek out Asian women or latinas but I'm not blind, there are shit ton of attractive ones but they have never traveled in my circles and/or the first or second generation cultural differences kept them completely immersed in their parent's culture but if I were single and met a woman who happened to be Asian or Latina who was nerdy like I am and shared similar interests it would be on and poppin. This stick to your own nonsense or exclusion of a certain type of people is the exact bullshit that keeps us divided and easy targets of the elites.
really don't care about anyone elses choices. no one should feel they have to date a particular kind of person just to prove they aren't rascist or whatever. we all have our ideas on whats attractive and what we want in our lives.
It doesn't bother me as long as they are honest about it. I had met a few white women who would date everybody but black men. I have not and will not hold it against them. I respect their position as they should respect mine. I cannot change a world I never made.
I think a lot of answers here are simple in length but deep and philosophical. I respect everyones opinion, but I'll be honest, it depends on the situation. If I'm at the gym and see a nice white girl and approach her (whilst not having a problem being apporached in the gym), and she tells me in a non hateful way: "sorry, I don't date black guys," I'm going to be a little angry, salty, hurt, etc. Is it going to ruin my life, hell no, I get to much ass for that, but still...
agreed, or when they try to act all conservative one second but the second a black person passes by them their faces look like: