Saw quite a few attractive IR couples this weekend. Some at the large farmer's market here in my city and more at an outdoor concert last night. Mostly WW/BM but also saw a few BW/WM. Cute young couple came into my place of employment last week; he recently got out of the military. Got hired this morning.

I love to see happy IR couples! :smt049

 

Apparently, even Australia has its own Bible Belt territories.

Now I'm curious....

 

So discouraged right now. Particularly so because I am one of the many who are now looking at ways to cut back from my frivolous spending habits to try to save $$

Frivolous for me means buying groceries, gas for my car to commute in DC traffic, other necessities. That buying extra shit stopped a long time ago for me.

Received my furlough letter the other day

Just seems like I can't get up on my feet! Left my ex and a house behind to having to start all over again, bills upon bills...robbing Peter to pay Paul. Now this. Shit is aggravating. And when I think about all of those people who are making these decisions, all of the people who are affected who have families to support and not enough money as it is, they continue living their lavish lives and are unaffected.

Just blows my mind.

Sorry...just thinking out loud. :toimonster:

 

:freehug::freehug::freehug:
Hang in there girl, I hope that things turn around for you soon.

 

I hear you Cher, it would appear that we are both in the same boat. Hang in there lovely, the fog will clear xxxx

 

Incredibly sexist but I am going to say it any way.


I prefer it when the lion chases the lioness and not the other way around.
It is just an odd experience.

 

I have no doubts of your resilience, this will pass. :freehug:

 

Chicks can't win. We've been told on here that men are tired of having to do all the chasing, then you come along with this statement

 

Deprogram this odd way of thinking and enjoy the moment. Personally I let women choose cuz the ball is always in their favor.

 

It is ok if you know the person but off the street is just odd.

 

I'm an odd fellow. but here goes.

I have a comfort zone. I have to keep everything one way or I am out. A good example is a date. I choose where to go. I may ask where do you want to go but what I mean is choose from where I am comfortable to go! If you choose wrong, I'll give a reason why not to go and have you choose again.:smt026

 

Then you'd be one single, lonely programmer, bro.

 

naa comfort zone is still pretty big.I'm not going to be on the first date going to a piercing parlor to gget a prince albert that's all.

 

I mean find the means to compromise rather than doing everything archangel wants. That'll just give them the impression you're too self-absorbed in what you want and inconsiderate of what other people yearn for.

Besides, this isn't a dramedy TV show. You're more likely to go to a parlor if you have a tattoo of a naked lady plopping binary codes.

 

:smt081

 

LOL you should give them a list to choose from.

 

I actually name places after asking to limit to where to go. :smt003

 

I'll bet you're just a barrel of monkeys...

 

Chessie,every time I look at your avy I feel like you're undressing me with your eyes. I feel uncomfortable like I'm a piece of chocolate meat. I'm reporting you to the mods.

 

Fixed. :tonqe:

I got my eyes on you Mr Numbers....I see everything. And you love it. By all means, report me for my lascivious gaze....