Ches that's not good at all. An objective mistrust is ok, but try to get over it to not treating in general. I've also had to swallow disappointments, but that's life. I believe in people, men and women- you get soo much back, when someone else feels you give them a Chance. Nobody is perfect, also not me or you. And you have a good instinct, you can rely on
And this is why I'm usually quick to offer second and even third chances. I know I'm not perfect, I often don't get it right - I expect that others aren't and may not get it right the first time either. Sorry for my whining.
There you got me wrong.. I mean to give one chance not several..if someone disappointed me once.. I send him to hell, honestly. I am not wasting time, we are in an age, where I can expect a mature behaviour..not playing games, this time is definitly over There are tons of men out there, no need to struggle with one, who doesn't know, how it works
Easier said than done, but SO true. I will always offer a basic level of trust to people (until/unless they show me they don't deserve it), however I never put it past someone to hurt me. People are naturally selfish to some extent, so I tend to remain a tad guarded. Nothing that would turn someone off, just enough for me to keep people emotionally at arms length until we prove to each other our true intentions. Probably sounds more cynical than it actually is, but we have to protect ourselves somehow. With all that said though, once you have a piece of my heart, you're in. Ride or die at that point.
What? You are playing the bad boy, now? I know that you are not the most faithful one- but you just have to find the right SO for you, my friend...and then! it looks different
Archangel,you better google the dates of Oktoberfest before you go. Plus,ask the people whom you know on the bierhalls where it is mostly crowded and get there early. Even if you don't need wing folks bring some anyway. I remember years ago there was a bierhall there where a lot of brothers hang. It was unfortgettable. Dark King,a single man could be successful there but,I'm not sure in the misdt of beer and checkens.
I know how you feel and I know it's hard not get bitter and distrustful. The sad thing is, if you do become all that, you will be the one suffering in the end. You might miss out on the one guy who is sincere in his intent. I remember one guy who was so hurt from his past experiences that he wasn't able to trust anymore and thought that every woman is a potential whore. I told myself that, no matter how many fucked up men I might meet, I will try my best not to become like that. Be careful with opening up too soon and kick to the curb who isn't honest and reliable. I know how it can hurt though :smt056
Awww!!! I surely hope so! I think he's lost out there somewhere and because he's a man, he's too proud to ask directions.
I have been fortunate when it comes to dating and finding quality men. Granted, I found a few crazy, conceited, and strange gentlemen...however, I always seem to find the best ones when I'm not looking for them. They seek me out...and I have found that by tending to my own needs and focusing on myself, that's when those good ones appear. Dating after being married and in a relationship with the same person for over a decade takes some getting used to. I have found that a lot of those so called "normal" men like to play games (as do women, to be fair)...I am just so over games and wondering if I should not call him, text him first, etc. I guess you learn and mature over the years.
not even a call!!!! That's rude. People should at least give a courtesy call. That being said you never know what happened to a person.
