Then they should be mature and man enough not to pretend otherwise and move on to the next profile. You don't even have to go beyond the first line of mine (and for crying out loud, if a man can't take the time to read that, he's pretty pathetic) to know that's not what I'm looking for. For that matter, once a guy starts communicating with me, the "so what are you looking for question?" often comes up pretty quickly. I'm honest about what I want. So there should be no confusion. Those (men or women) who just want sex, need to stop messing with those who are looking for something more. I am sick of the deception. Truly.
I think this is the bottom line. Casual sex is very easy to come by (for men and women). There's no reason to string someone along who's looking for more when there's a hundred other fish in the sea who will give it up without the extra "work". It's deceitful and unnecessary imo, especially when someone makes it perfectly clear that they're looking for more. I just don't get people sometimes
For assholes like that it's evidently just a game they get off on playing regardless of how it affects the person they're messing with. It's a damn shame. Hang in there, Chessy. *hugs*
How is this possible I wonder? I mean, I know that there are some real bitches out there, no doubt. But looking at this forum alone, I see so many beautiful, smart, kind and funny women who say the same things and face the same problems. It almost looks like we were dating the same guy in some way. Who and where are all these women men complain about? I don't know a single one personally.
I said nothing about being a b-word... its more about how ches and others say men just want sex and no relationship as to say women aren't the same. I've ran out of fingers and toes to count how many times I've been at a hotel for whatever reason and been solicited for a good no strings attached romping. Not to say that there is anything wrong with it but it does happen. An old co worker of mine really wanted to get married and when we would all go out, he said the same thing as ches "who just want sex, need to stop messing with those who are looking for something more. I am sick of the deception." I had to tell him, he cant expect to get what he wants when we are going out to lounges/clubs/restaurant bars and there are women with great jobs who don't want a family or to be tied down because they are advancing their careers. My point, it goes both ways and maybe some are jaded by their past experiences however you cant classify all men or women into one group of being sex driven individuals.
This forum is such a small percentage of the population, and from what I've seen is represented by forward thinking, mature women who know exactly what they want. Now your everyday social setting is becoming more and more saturated with these neo-feminist types. Now let me explain...feminism has it's place, and has helped push gender equality by leaps and bounds, but what has happened is you get these quote on quote "independent" women who are essentially ACTING LIKE MEN. They want to spit game like men, they want to play like men, and they want to fuck like men. As mentally challenged as us men are this is something a lot of guys are starting to take notice of, and it's really diluting the viable dating pool. You have probably heard all of the expletives "Woman nowadays ain't shit.". Etc..etc...But basically what's happening is everyone is pre-emptively striking everyone. I'm gonna get them before they get me, or I'm not going to even consider letting this person get close enough to hurt me, so i'm gonna get what I can and keep it movin.
And how many women have you successfully banged from pof? The reality is even jump offs want to be treated like a main chick
That casual sex is easy to come by for men is none sense and pure hilarity. If it was dudes wouldnt be so damn thirsty these days.
A true jump off does not want to be treated like a main chick. If that's been your experience then you fucked with people who didn't understand what "casual, no strings attached sex" means. I guess I should've clarified. Casual sex is easy to come by for those who know what they're doing.
LOL. :freehug:classic statement. love it. LOL. you know some of these dudes have no clue....but thats not the problem...they think they need not to sit around to learn how to get game. hell, even people who have game continue to learn. LOL
Yeah for those that are naturally physically gifted. Your average dude is tricking or jumping thru hoops for casual sex. . I dont give a fuck how smooth you are or how much game you have, a chick aint fucking a guy casually just for that.
Speaking from the average man's pov boys? Me? I have no problem pulling as I'm an absolute fuckin stunner (when I'm fully made up, dressed up, have the right lighting, the mans had enough to drink and its closing time)
so you telling me yall cant go out somewhere and successfully be able to have casual sex with a women? really?
