Big tall black guys

[DJ_1985]

It seems that white girls are stuck up on this type of black guy, I guess a bulky black guy makes them feel more submissive or whatever, I dunno. I can understand wanting a guy to be in shape cuz I want a girl who's in shape but I'm not like Michael Clarke Duncan, nor do I wanna be. I'm only 5-9 and I have an athletic build...Discuss

 

[tuckerreed]

how big do you have to be for the women to want you? I think they want a bm to fit a racial stereotype

 

[DJ_1985]

how big do you have to be for the women to want you? I think they want a bm to fit a racial stereotype

Well from what I read in the profiles they want black body builders basically, lol. And it's not just on this site, lots of white girls say that they want big tall guys. I don't want to be that big no matter who it impresses.

 

[tuckerreed]

oh so they want big bulky men who are also tall? I am tall but athletic, not some steriod king.

it is funny they want that but alot of them dont seem to have a lot to offer physically on most of the IR sites. most of the ww are overweight, yet they want the buff body--so what do the guys get? white skin?

 

[MistressB]

Athletic doesn't matter, but I'm 5"10 myself so unlikely to date anyone below 6ft-6"2, minimum.

 

[DJ_1985]

oh so they want big bulky men who are also tall? I am tall but athletic, not some steriod king.

it is funny they want that but alot of them dont seem to have a lot to offer physically on most of the IR sites. most of the ww are overweight, yet they want the buff body--so what do the guys get? white skin?

LOL, I agree 100%

 

[DJ_1985]

Athletic doesn't matter, but I'm 5"10 myself so unlikely to date anyone below 6ft-6"2, minimum.

Well that's understandable, I just 'wish I was a little bit taller' hehe

 

[TheChosenOne]

This isn't just limited to WW...a lot of women have an affinity for tall (but not too tall) men. I can understand in MissB's case as she is a tall woman....but I've seen WW who are '5-3 " and won't look at a man who is less than '6-0." I would think if you are '5-3" that a man who is around say '5-7" to '5-10" is ideal because you can still wear heels and not be taller, and you don't have to strain your neck to kiss him..or do other things.... :lol:

I think many of the WW who want the big, burly negro are just trying to maximize the "experience." They figure that if they are going to go black they want the most impressive physical specimen possible...'6-4" and about 265 lbs with less than 7% body fat...a 6 or 8 pack, dark as all hell but not "ashy and hairy" but rather smooth skin, and hung like a porn star....that's what many of these ladies go for...too bad they look like giant creampuffs....put the two together and its sort of like the number 10 walking down the street.....

women in general prefer taller men...except latinas...for some reason its not as much of a deal breaker with them...as long as you are the same height as them..its okay...BW care about it to an extent..but they often place unrealistic standards on men in other categories anyway....AW have the same thing with WM that WW have with BM...AW go for what they view as the most "manly man" they can find...of course a typical AW's fantasy of the manly man is not nearly as formidable as the WW fantasy.

 

[tuckerreed]

yeah i agree but as we are bm and ww i think we are focusing on the way one sees the other

 

[infiniti]

What is considered tall anyway. I am barely 6'1 and have always thought I am a little taller than average (being the shortest man in my nuclear family). How tall are you guys?

In terms of white women wanting muscular guys, I don't mind as long as the girl is in shape herself. I don't mind a perfectly healthy, athletic girl looking for the same sort of man. The reality however is that most people aren't athletic, so maybe they should start being realistic.

 

[mosiah1]

Athletic doesn't matter, but I'm 5"10 myself so unlikely to date anyone below 6ft-6"2, minimum.

So I guess your wouldn't date Taye Diggs if he was single, now would you MistressB? After all, he is only 5-10.

The point I'm trying to make here (and not just to MistressB) is this: money changes everything when factored into a dating equation. Here are a few examples

1) Tom Cruise is only 5-7, but he was once married to the tall Nicole Kidman (one of my fantasy goddesses)

2) The singer formerly known as Prince is only 5-3 tops and has been romantically involved with Sheena Easton and Kim Basinger. All of this despite the fact that he has some feminine tendencies (wears pumps, thongs in public and pants with his ass hanging out).

3) Al Pacino (one of my favorite actors) is only 5-6, but even at though he is in his 60s, women still go crazy over him.

4) Oscar De La Hoya is not short (he's 5-11) but he's not exactly a burly guy either. In his boxing prime, he weighed between 140 and 150 pounds but women throw themselves at him.

So given the right amount of money or fame, women will change their preferences in a heartbeat.

Peace.
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"The blacker the beast, the more filling the feast"

 

[MistressB]

Athletic doesn't matter, but I'm 5"10 myself so unlikely to date anyone below 6ft-6"2, minimum.

So I guess your wouldn't date Taye Diggs if he was single, now would you MistressB? After all, he is only 5-10.

The point I'm trying to make here (and not just to MistressB) is this: money changes everything when factored into a dating equation. Here are a few examples

I guess not...shame. He looked taller on his photos. I'm not that interested in money though, myself, to be honest - I'd take height over money any day. :lol:

The attraction is all money and fame with these guys??! What are you talking about? Tom Cruise is a sexy shorter man, for sure - he has the bulk although not the height, and a heartwinning smile. And Al Pacino was just plain beautiful in his day, those large eyes and intense gaze coupled with his soft lips...mmm. And he's a terrific actor also.

 

[DJ_1985]

Athletic doesn't matter, but I'm 5"10 myself so unlikely to date anyone below 6ft-6"2, minimum.

So I guess your wouldn't date Taye Diggs if he was single, now would you MistressB? After all, he is only 5-10.

The point I'm trying to make here (and not just to MistressB) is this: money changes everything when factored into a dating equation. Here are a few examples

I guess not...shame. He looked taller on his photos. I'm not that interested in money though, myself, to be honest - I'd take height over money any day. :lol:

The attraction is all money and fame with these guys??! What are you talking about? Tom Cruise is a sexy shorter man, for sure - he has the bulk although not the height, and a heartwinning smile. And Al Pacino was just plain beautiful in his day, those large eyes and intense gaze coupled with his soft lips...mmm. And he's a terrific actor also.

I agree with mosiah. You probably don't see them for their money and fame but the essential attraction is money and fame. When someone is in the spotlight you pay more attention to what's already there. I'm sure that if you'd seen these people(and they were not famous or rich) at the grocery store or the mall they would have been random faces in a sea of bodies.

'the eye is always caught by light, but shadows have more to say'-Gregory Maguire

 

[MistressB]

But WHY are they rich, famous and successful? They weren't born rich, like royalty. You're kidding yourself if you think any ordinary joe could walk off the street and just generate that much fame and cash.

 

[DJ_1985]

But WHY are they rich, famous and successful? They weren't born rich, like royalty. You're kidding yourself if you think any ordinary joe could walk off the street and just generate that much fame and cash.

Because they're both really good actors, The Color of Money is one of my favorite movies by the way.

 

[LaydeezmanCris]

It seems that white girls are stuck up on this type of black guy, I guess a bulky black guy makes them feel more submissive or whatever, I dunno. I can understand wanting a guy to be in shape cuz I want a girl who's in shape but I'm not like Michael Clarke Duncan, nor do I wanna be. I'm only 5-9 and I have an athletic build...Discuss

I gotta agree with that point, DJ. White girls, well American ones, have got his huge sexual healing for big black men, at least i should know. I've asked a few what they like and they've said things ranging from having a guardian angel, feeling submissive or the absurd "gives a clue about his dick size". Im 6'8 265 pounds and i get girls hugging me, flirting with me and trying to make me carry them all the time which i find rather amusing. :lol:

I can understand you want a huge man though because my ultimate aphrodisiac is a petite, curvy woman. Hell, my fiancee is 5'2 122 pounds and you know it doesnt get any better than that. 8)

 

[DJ_1985]

It seems that white girls are stuck up on this type of black guy, I guess a bulky black guy makes them feel more submissive or whatever, I dunno. I can understand wanting a guy to be in shape cuz I want a girl who's in shape but I'm not like Michael Clarke Duncan, nor do I wanna be. I'm only 5-9 and I have an athletic build...Discuss

I gotta agree with that point, DJ. White girls, well American ones, have got his huge sexual healing for big black men, at least i should know. I've asked a few what they like and they've said things ranging from having a guardian angel, feeling submissive or the absurd "gives a clue about his dick size". Im 6'8 265 pounds and i get girls hugging me, flirting with me and trying to make me carry them all the time which i find rather amusing. :lol:

I can understand you want a huge man though because my ultimate aphrodisiac is a petite, curvy woman. Hell, my fiancee is 5'2 122 pounds and you know it doesnt get any better than that. 8)

I feel like Skee-Lo

"-I wish I was a little bit taller,
I wish I was a baller
I wish I had a girl who looked good
I would call her
I wish I had a rabbit in a hat with a bat
and a '64 Impala

I wish I was like six-foot-nine
So I could get with Leoshi
Cause she don't know me but yo she's really fine
You know I see her all the time
Everywhere I go, and even in my dreams
I can scheme of ways to make her mine"

 

[SardonicGenie]

This discussion reminds me of kenny's thread about thick girls being a race thing, which surely isn't, however, it came to mind...

and, DJ, Cris, and especially Mosiah are on the money here. Women in general (mainly American women) will forget about shortcomings in a heartbeat in regards to their initial attractions of a man, if he has enough money and fame to cancel it out.

 

[amy]

What girl doesn't want a tall man, unless she's really petite...then you have to crane your neck to kiss them.

I prefer taller men for all sorts of reasons, all of which make them more attractive and make me willing to submit.

 

[LaydeezmanCris]

What girl doesn't want a tall man, unless she's really petite...then you have to crane your neck to kiss them.

i know, right. Imagine a 6'8 guy like me having to bend over every time to kiss a 5'2 woman. Man, its really odd. :lol: