I'm a redhead (darker auburn) and the best man I've ever dated was a black man, and I've been through a good deal of the spice rack. (the different flavors of the male species) I found my black companion to be the most passionate, soulful, sexiest, and most relaxed - even with all of his stress, he's so laid back he's about to fall out, lol. I am actually talking to him again, we're looking at possibly dating in the future...who knows. But from him, I've learned, that I really enjoy the company of a chill, sexy black man. I'm not saying there aren't white or Hispanic men who are the same, but so far, no one's compared to him on several levels, so what can I say? I find myself listening to more R & B (appeals to all the senses) and less rock, watching more of my favorite black actors than white (Tyler Perry movies being my favs) and I get along so wonderfully with my beautiful female black friends, I find myself wanting to be a part of their lives, their families, their whole environment in general. I live in a very diverse area so that may play a part. I'm a 'fat' redhead, who's told she's beautiful all the time, and I know there's a stereotype that goes with all of this, but I don't feel it in my own life because I have a small number of white men hitting on me, as well as black, Hispanic, and even Asian. I'm 40 now, and I've only dated one black man. "Once you go black.." is actually pretty accurate, LMAO.
That help?
Please don't hate on me! LOL
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