Sad but probably true. I don't see dudes breaking down the walls to be friends with unattractive women, but they can be persistent as heck when the girl's cute! I guess that goes back to your point of them ultimately wanting to fuck. Never saw it that way before.
Pffft.....I've told you before. Unless you're paying for a plane ticket & offering up a new home in Aussie to make it worth all the hell I'd catch to give up what I already have, all you get is that lip service. Not my fault you're fiending for properly aged & quality dark meat like myself......
It might be true babe. I think men and women go about, and view, friendship differently at times. I'll get to know a dude if his personality interests me regardless of the attraction factor. TDK is saying that men are curious, at least initially, because of the attraction. In my experience, chicks that have a general attractiveness to them tend to have a larger circle of opposite-sex friends. I think that validates what TDK is saying. Crazy but true baby.
I disagreed. I think each level of attractiveness has its own fan base level. Which may possibly be equal across the board.
Wait.....Now I have to make my way to LA in this deal? Next you'll be saying I'll need to pay half for the ticket to Aussie...
Perhaps but your less likely to have a 300lbs girl tell you how her friend of three years just professed his longtime crush. Most men and women like fit in shape bodies its nothing personal just biology.
Once you're that deep into a friendship though, I think attractiveness changes. Haven't you ever known someone who became attractive and appealing once you got to know them? I think people get sexier as I get to know them better. What may initially be just a friendship with a dude I don't think is cute, could completely change if we connect on other levels. For the women I know, it's not all about looks. Personality can have a huge impact on attractiveness.
Well I won't speak for all men but.in my experience no amount of.time and personality.is.going.to make someone.hot that I didnt think was hot.begin with. Maybe surgery or weight loss but being funny or smart isn't enough. My guy friends usually have way better personalities and are just as smart and I never have to worry about.hurting.their feelings.
Agreed. If I didn't like the guy in into as a person he would not be physically appealing to me at all. A guy I discounted at a bar in the past seemed much more secure to me when we became roommates. He was shorter than me when we were sitting at the bar, couldn't take him seriously. Then when we moved into the same apartment, we were play wrestling. He became a lie more attractive to me then just because even though I probably have 40 pounds on him, he picked me up over his shoulders like I weighted nothing. Later, two days before I flew home, he actually flipped me right off Mr feet when showing me karate stuff. That made him sexier to me, when he's not exactly "my type". *blinks* no amount of periods used in a paragraph will help either.
I've experienced the same type of thing. A guy who was not my usual type, and I didn't find him attractive at all really, became incredibly sexy just by his personality and the way he treated me. A guy who shares common interests, can make me laugh, teach me things, treat me well...it all goes a long way. Looks fade...character doesn't. :smt043:smt043:smt043:smt043
