The "Thank you" thread

lippy said:
you are not alone...trust me... as the women line up to say it has happened to them as well...all of us grown women...if it's any consolation it just makes you stronger and the men that do it more foolish...
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Thanks for all the support.....so truly grateful.
xoxox
 
RaiderLL said:
That is terrible...so it's someone who's done this to others here?? I know you're taking the high road and handling this with maturity (which I commend you for), but part of me wants his name blasted here to warn others. I know that's childish, but I hate cowardly people who take advantage of others. I'm sorry miss Rita. This really serves as a lesson to all though, not to offer our true selves up so quickly. Like you said, lesson learned.
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it does get out there. there was a while back when we women banded together and disclosed to each other, the men who were making promises etc. it was quite surprising to see how many women were speaking to the same man or had an experience with the same man.
 
Tarshi said:
it does get out there. there was a while back when we women banded together and disclosed to each other, the men who were making promises etc. it was quite surprising to see how many women were speaking to the same man or had an experience with the same man.
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What I find particularly disturbing is he got me to send him photos, including some of my kids. I cringe when I think of this. I feel very violated.........This was the first site I felt comfortable participating in. Afther this experience, I was going to discontinue, but I decided I'm not giving him that power. Most men are NOT like him.
 
Thank you to lippy, CN, SN and my lovely anon for your recent reps and comments.

Lippy, I had no idea. But not surprised. Seems to be the nature of the beast. Yahoo me sometime....

To my anon - your compliments warm my heart. I understand but hope you will someday tell me who you are. :)
 
RestlessRita said:
What I find particularly disturbing is he got me to send him photos, including some of my kids. I cringe when I think of this. I feel very violated.........This was the first site I felt comfortable participating in. Afther this experience, I was going to discontinue, but I decided I'm not giving him that power. Most men are NOT like him.
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I hope you find a way to get that sorted out. By the way, I never noticed you were even here!
 
Many thanks to Unique, Bookie, and Anonymous for the much appreciated reps and uplifting comments. :freehug:
 
RestlessRita said:
What I find particularly disturbing is he got me to send him photos, including some of my kids. I cringe when I think of this. I feel very violated.........This was the first site I felt comfortable participating in. Afther this experience, I was going to discontinue, but I decided I'm not giving him that power. Most men are NOT like him.
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I'm so sorry you fell for him Rita.
My future advice is: get a feeling for the person and how he behaves around men and women in the forum. Does he post pics? Does he talk about himself? Is he polite or rather rude?
All the above gives you an idea on who you are dealing with before you open up and share too much with the wrong person.
I'm a member for three years now and I saw a lot of trolls come and go.
Some are easy to spot right away, some reveal there hidden agenda a little later.
Your "Mr. charming" sent me a picture that looks like he copied it from the web which alarmed me right away.

It looks like he might have left now. He was a quite new member anyway (May 2013).
Whoever wants to know who he is, you just have to look at Rita's posts and see who offered her to chat ;)

p.s. I'm wrong. He was online today.
So when you read this you fake ass dickhead: FUCK YOU! :smt042
 
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Unique4ever said:
I'm so sorry you fell for him Rita.
My future advice is: get a feeling for the person and how he behaves around men and women in the forum. Does he post pics? Does he talk about himself? Is he polite or rather rude?
All the above gives you an idea on who you are dealing with before you open up and share too much with the wrong person.
I'm a member for three years now and I saw a lot of trolls come and go.
Some are easy to spot right away, some reveal there hidden agenda a little later.
Your "Mr. charming" sent me a picture that looks like he copied it from the web which alarmed me right away.

It looks like he might have left now. He was a quite new member anyway.
Whoever wants to know who he is, you just have to look at Rita's posts and see who offered her to chat ;)
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Great advice, Unique! I don't think this individual ever even posted anything to any of the forums. I tread carefully when someone that doesn't post contacts me. And I had someone who also sent me a pic copied from the web. I knew it because MS randomly posted the same picture (of a certain anatomy part) from the web one time as a joke. I'm wondering if this might be the same person under another username....
 
Those little things and thangs

Thank you to Bliss and Sir Nose for the welcome and comments. It is a pleasure to be in such good company.
 
Trying to remember if this is the same guy who befriended me when I joined the forum initially....something fishy about that guy.
 
curleyblonde said:
I am curious too, but I think he should be outed to prevent another new poster getting approached the same way. Why keep it secret if he is troll?
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Same thing I was thinking. Everybody is avoiding this dude and walking on egg shells as if he's Debo or some shit.

it's singleblkmale
 
Dude has 7 bullshit ass posts and manages to wreak all this havoc on the DL...

Honestly, I didn't even know he even existed.
 
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