Average Girls Need To Stay In Their Lane

Morning Star said:
I do all those things, but surely not to the magnitude where for a desired match. But I'm not one to look anyway.
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good...dont look. u r n the right mind frame. hell when i was n the military n college our asses had no fear. we stop a woman walking n we would talk. out of 20 i would get 5 #'s. out of that maybe 1 date. lol it was funny as hell
 
You had more ass than a toilet seat, I bet. :mrgreen: Lucky bastard! I'll have to walk with you.

goodlove said:
good...dont look. u r n the right mind frame. hell when i was n the military n college our asses had no fear. we stop a woman walking n we would talk. out of 20 i would get 5 #'s. out of that maybe 1 date. lol it was funny as hell
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Morning Star said:
I'll admit, there were times a long time ago in which I acted begrudgingly over the idea of rejection. Nowadays, I just don't care much since I realized that there are other fish out there. I lack the sex appeal commonly associated with men, but I have my own sense of charm which attracts women, but only in a sense that they can confide to me as a brotherly type, which doesn't bother me at all.

I just came to accept that position until proven otherwise. Even if I wind up being a single man for the rest of my life, I can find joy without the prospects of sharing my life with another, instead of wasting my energy thinking all women are stuck-up bitches.
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the boys and i would get 2gether discussed what went wrong n rigjht. guess what? all of us got better and successful at it and got married. out 3 of us im thre only one divorced
 
Morning Star said:
I'll admit, there were times a long time ago in which I acted begrudgingly over the idea of rejection. Nowadays, I just don't care much since I realized that there are other fish out there. I lack the sex appeal commonly associated with men, but I have my own sense of charm which attracts women, but only in a sense that they can confide to me as a brotherly type, which doesn't bother me at all.

I just came to accept that position until proven otherwise. Even if I wind up being a single man for the rest of my life, I can find joy without the prospects of sharing my life with another, instead of wasting my energy thinking all women are stuck-up bitches.
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I have been in many platonic relationships. And I was thankful for each one. I understood that this is how they saw me and they didn't see me in any other way. The women felt safe with me as a friend because the boundary had already been established. Enjoy those relationships. They could be to your benefit.
 
Of course. But you know? I think in the end...some people will wind up dying without the arms of another. That's likely on my end and well, it won't matter.

Gorath said:
I have been in many platonic relationships. And I was thankful for each one. I understood that this is how they saw me and they didn't see me in any other way. The women felt safe with me as a friend because the boundary had already been established. Enjoy those relationships. They could be to your benefit.
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Morning Star said:
Of course. But you know? I think in the end...some people will wind up dying without the arms of another. That's likely on my end and well, it won't matter.
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It is my end moreso than you, MS. I do not believe there is anyone for me out there. But you have a better chance at finding someone. I am not afraid of being alone because I grew up alone. I am prepared for it. I believe there is hope for you. You need to move out of town into another place and let the magic begin. This funk you are in is only momentary. Every hour, every minute, every second of every day matters. Everything counts. Check out the film All-Star Superman. It is a very thought-provoking and thoughtful film. It may give you some comfort. It did for me.
 
I watched All-Star Superman. It was very comforting and well told, despite its length.

But you're right. My signature actually applies to you indefinitely (translated: all hours wound, the last kills) given your age. But even with that, time will have to be of essence for you. Just live out the final years of your life. I know you're in your 50s, but I'm not sure of your longevity, nor could I say whether your finite existence will somehow come to a close soon.

But I can say this...don't think too hard on finding romance anymore. Just live for your own personal worth and value. If you can take advantage of anything, it's your knowledge and your Siskel & Ebert style oratory skills when speaking on movies, actors, actresses and the like. You just need a venue and I believe you do...in the form of viral video.

Gorath said:
It is my end moreso than you, MS. I do not believe there is anyone for me out there. But you have a better chance at finding someone. I am not afraid of being alone because I grew up alone. I am prepared for it. I believe there is hope for you. You need to move out of town into another place and let the magic begin. This funk you are in is only momentary. Every hour, every minute, every second of every day matters. Everything counts. Check out the film All-Star Superman. It is a very thought-provoking and thoughtful film. It may give you some comfort. It did for me.
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Morning Star said:
I watched All-Star Superman. It was very comforting and well told, despite its length.

But you're right. My signature actually applies to you indefinitely (translated: all hours wound, the last kills) given your age. But even with that, time will have to be of essence for you. Just live out the final years of your life. I know you're in your 50s, but I'm not sure of your longevity, nor could I say whether your finite existence will somehow come to a close soon.

But I can say this...don't think too hard on finding romance anymore. Just live for your own personal worth and value. If you can take advantage of anything, it's your knowledge and your Siskel & Ebert style oratory skills when speaking on movies, actors, actresses and the like. You just need a venue and I believe you do...in the form of viral video.
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Thank you. I am 48. 50 is when I take my leave of the arena. You are right. I do need a venue to launch from. And I will consider going back to school to relearn the saxophone, Spanish and other languages, etc. I will live and learn.
 
We all still have an idea of what society deems a 10 though, so that's what most go by. However, what makes someone a 5 or a 10 is entirely subjective. A 10 to one person is a 1 to someone else.

I'd never seek out a 10 (by society's standards). This is because I know I'm not a 10. If I got a 10, it wouldn't be anything lasting, because I'd be wondering what other women would try.
If I pulled a 10, and a female 9 went after him, I'd wonder if he'd stay loyal. If he found her more attractive. I'd constantly feel that I have to compete for his attention, and that I have no room to slip. Would never compete for attention, if I felt I had to compete I wouldn't pursue him... or I'd let him go.

If I went with someone closer to myself, that same feeling of having to compete wouldn't be as extreme. I wouldn't have to worry about the 'model types' so much, because he's close to my own level of attraction, not theirs.




The Dark King said:
I disagree. It's about what's physically appealing and race doesn't always exemplify that. I think his generalizations point to a real truth. You can't be super picky if you don't have much to offer physically.
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You can... but there'd be a lot of lonely nights :p

The Dark King said:
That was part of the blog to. Not only were these women below average in looks but personality. I think it's worth mentioning that in order for someone to care about what your personality is like you have to be attractive otherwise what's the point
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Yup! For me anyways. It doesn't matter how good of a person someone is, if they're not attractive to me and don't get a second look... there's nothing that would make me desire a conversation with them. (Unless he was doing something that caught my attention, and his personality showed through that).

4north1side2 said:
You found it interesting because it reflects your hardships in dating. Just know that chick your putting on a pedestal is getting her daily protein nourishment by other posters who put in 0 effort.
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Protein nourishment... :smt081:smt081

Beasty said:
Thats why I dont understand whats wrong with talking at McDonalds. lol
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Good one!
 
Not just that...but it would help to be a sort of entrepreneur too. Learn from coding...and it's free online.

Gorath said:
Thank you. I am 48. 50 is when I take my leave of the arena. You are right. I do need a venue to launch from. And I will consider going back to school to relearn the saxophone, Spanish and other languages, etc. I will live and learn.
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Nikkers said:
We all still have an idea of what society deems a 10 though, so that's what most go by. However, what makes someone a 5 or a 10 is entirely subjective. A 10 to one person is a 1 to someone else.

I'd never seek out a 10 (by society's standards). This is because I know I'm not a 10. If I got a 10, it wouldn't be anything lasting, because I'd be wondering what other women would try.
If I pulled a 10, and a female 9 went after him, I'd wonder if he'd stay loyal. If he found her more attractive. I'd constantly feel that I have to compete for his attention, and that I have no room to slip. Would never compete for attention, if I felt I had to compete I wouldn't pursue him... or I'd let him go.

If I went with someone closer to myself, that same feeling of having to compete wouldn't be as extreme. I wouldn't have to worry about the 'model types' so much, because he's close to my own level of attraction, not theirs.





You can... but there'd be a lot of lonely nights :p


Yup! For me anyways. It doesn't matter how good of a person someone is, if they're not attractive to me and don't get a second look... there's nothing that would make me desire a conversation with them. (Unless he was doing something that caught my attention, and his personality showed through that).


Protein nourishment... :smt081:smt081


Good one!
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I hate when people assign an number scale to describe a person looks. 9/10 nobody agrees with them.
 
It's always been like that, man. Numbers are just a way to validate a point, however subjective it may be.

I mean if I were to use a number scale to determine my perception of a woman on here, I'd get a lot of angry faces.

4north1side2 said:
I hate when people assign an number scale to describe a person looks. 9/10 nobody agrees with them.
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