Attraction to Black Men = Perversion?

Since1980 said:
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I have to ask, though, how did you find black men by accident?
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Easy. Moved down to South Florida after getting divorced. New area, and new perspective. Down here there are a lot more black people than where I used to live. Eventually I said to hell with it, if white men are scared by me, and black men keep hitting on me, then logic would dictate: time to give in and try something new. And I'm glad I did.
 
Athena said:
Mmm, I've always wanted to visit Georgia....
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It's great! Winter feels like spring, spring feels like summer, and summer feels like Hell but we have it pretty good down here. And fall is absolutely perfect.

And as always, goddess/hourglass shaped women are always welcome! :grin:
 
4north1side2 said:
But that avatar does

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LOL, damn right it does!
 
whikle said:
My good friends know about my preferences and they're totally fine with it - but there are still jokes when it comes up, or it's assumed that I'll have the hots for any black man that crosses our paths, regardless of whether I find him attractive or not.
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I just got back from Trinidad for Carnival. Trinidad was FULL of beautiful women, mostly black and indian. I went with three of my best friends, all black. Now, let me preface by saying; I am equally as attracted to black women as I am to white women, as I am to hispanic women. If there's a more appropriate website for me, it would be www.womenblackmen.com. I like to think I'm equal opporpoonity. Anyway, without fail, every single white girl that we came across, one of my friends would point her out and go 'there ya go', or 'that's you Jack'. Because, ya know, all that matters is that she is white.

It was the most annoying shit I've dealt with in a long time.
 
jaisee said:
I just got back from Trinidad for Carnival. Trinidad was FULL of beautiful women, mostly black and indian. I went with three of my best friends, all black. Now, let me preface by saying; I am equally as attracted to black women as I am to white women, as I am to hispanic women. If there's a more appropriate website for me, it would be www.womenblackmen.com. I like to think I'm equal opporpoonity. Anyway, without fail, every single white girl that we came across, one of my friends would point her out and go 'there ya go', or 'that's you Jack'. Because, ya know, all that matters is that she is white.

It was the most annoying shit I've dealt with in a long time.
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This. I even get winks and nudges if we're watching a tv show or movie and a black guy is in it.
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southfloridagirl said:
IF I ever marry again, it's going to be a black man. After experiencing a black man, a white man is no longer worth my trouble of trying to sustain something real with. If I get hurt by a black man, at least I'll be able to say I knew not to make the exact same mistake twice. White men are so damn insecure. Intimidated by me. Because I am tall, and I am very bright. Height and intelligence in a woman will have many men running for the hills super fast. I never imagined myself as the strong one in a relationship, but apparently I am. I'm an alpha. I need an alpha; most white men don't fit that bill, when they find themselves in my presence. And ironically I am the one that ends up getting hurt. Done with that sh**, so done with it.... Black men not only physically superior, but also no insecurity issues that I've come across. Perhaps the two might have something to do with each other.... Jealous men are a big turn off to me, after what my ex put me through.
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So smart but yet so damn ignant. I must ask you to please refrain from dissing white men as a whole and be mindful that many of the posters here have white father's, brother's, son's etc who don't fall under these negative labels.
 
4north1side2 said:
So smart but yet so damn ignant. I must ask you to please refrain from dissing white men as a whole and be mindful that many of the posters here have white father's, brother's, son's etc who don't fall under these negative labels.
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Try being a young, attractive, 5'8" white girl, with a high IQ, trying to have a trusting relationship with a white man, in a multicultural society. Then you might not be so quick to call me ignorant. It's my own experiences, and they've made made who I am, and they have created what I feel inside today. Perhaps if the world was a little more perfect, I would not be saying these things.

At this point in time in my life, even if I found a trustworthy white man, I would not go for it, for the simple fact that since being introduced to black men, I have a found what I am truly attracted to. And I never got insecure vibes from a black man, ever. Go figure that one.... But no, because then we might have to get into some more politically incorrect conversations that might lead to some inconvenient truths.... No matter how intelligent I am, I am still a woman, and I am attracted by a strong, secure, confident man, and turned off by an insecure one, who is always questioning me and himself.
 
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southfloridagirl said:
Try being a young, attractive, 5'8" white girl, with a high IQ, trying to have a trusting relationship with a white man, in a multicultural society. Then you might not be so quick to call me ignorant. It's my own experiences, and they've made made who I am, and they have created what I feel inside today. Perhaps if the world was a little more perfect, I would not be saying these things.

At this point in time in my life, even if I found a trustworthy white man, I would not go for it, for the simple fact that since being introduced to black men, I have a found what I am truly attracted to. And I never got insecure vibes from a black man, ever. Go figure that one.... But no, because then we might have to get into some more politically incorrect conversations that might lead to some inconvenient truths.... No matter how intelligent I am, I am still a woman, and I am attracted by a strong, secure, confident man, and turned off by an insecure one, who is always questioning me and himself.
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That's good and all but mind your manners. Thanks.
 
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